Post # 1
with MIA RSVPs. We’re three weeks out and I’m somewhat paranoid at least 13 people haven’t responded to my texts or emails. Do I send out one last email or call just to say we’re assuming they are not coming, to tell us otherwise if they are and have not RSVP’d.
Or do I just let it go and hope no one shows up after we get our final number for the place we’ll be having our wedding at?
Post # 3
With 13 non- responders, I would send one final email saying ” We are assuming by your lack of response that you are not able to attend the wedding. We will miss you.”
Post # 4
Duh – was going to ask how many times you contacted them but just saw the name of the post and that you have already contacted them twice!! I would just shoot an e-mail saying that you are sorry they are unable to attend and that you will miss them on your day.
Post # 5
I’d call them. They may have had problems with their email (its unlikely for all 13) but at least if you call and actually speak to them you’ll know for sure one way or another
Post # 6
I have the same problem with non-responders and people who won’t make up their mind (“we aren’t sure yet”. Ugh). Since I’ve already paid for their food because I ended up with fewer yeses than I anticipated when I signed my catering contract, my solution is to have an extra table set up in the back so it won’t be noticeably empty and if they show up, they’ll be sat there.