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Ten things your SO does that makes you LOVE them

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    bride2bejc    June 25, 2011   Live in Jersey City, Wedding was in NYC

    Okay so today I was thinking about how lucky I am to have this man in my life.  Now, I know that I'm not alone thinking this way, but I couldn't help it after hearing a not so happy story about a friend of a friend's relationship. This friend's friend was basically 'settling' with a man because she felt that it was all she could ever find. 

    My fi is amazing to me because he:

    1) He Loves to love me, and I mean physically and emotionally.  Whether it be massaging my back after a long day of work, or just listening to me vent about all my problems, he is always doing/saying the right things.

    2) He makes me laugh. 

    3) He cooks for me (I cook too, but he loves cooking!)...and packs my lunch.

    4) He does our laundry, because he knows that I HATE doing laundry

    5) He is patient with me.  I'm a HUGE worry bug, and he always knows how to calm me down

    6) He watches chick flicks with me.  In return, I sit through tons of sports programs, and have gone to numerous football games, even though to this day I still don't get the sport.

    7) He goes food shopping while I sleep in on the weekends (because he knows how much I LOVE my beauty rest)

    8) He is learning Spanish so he could communicate with my Grandmother

    9) He is a hard worker and is studying for an extra licensing test so that he could potentially make more money for our future.

    10) He takes care of his body by eating well and staying fit because he knows that he has to stick around with me until we grow old together (just like the couple from the movie "UP" lol)

    Common Bee's let's show them off!

     
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    MissCastle    April 30, 2011   Arizona/Maryland

    1. Wakes me up with a back massage

    2. Is so insanely popular that everyone loves him

    3. Treats our kitten like his own daughter and loves her to death

    4. Supports me in everything I want to do ... including taking jobs that would move us cross-country

    5. Tells me my food is delicious

    6. Shares bottles of wine with me

    7. Ran my first 5k with me because he knew I was too nervous to do it alone

    8. Lets me go out with my girlfriends without questioning me or getting jeaous (yes, I have had BFs in the past that caused issues with that)

    9. Is willing to do anything to make me comfortable, inclluding turning the AC WAY up and paying a ridiculously high electric bill

    10. Finished college and started an MBA because he knows I want to be a stay-at-home mom someday, so we'll need to make more money on his salary.

     
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    cvbee    August 13, 2010   canada

    1. Always says sorry. 

    2. Gets up first on weekends and makes me breakfast. 

    3. Makes me feel beautiful inside and out. 

    4. Loves our cat.

    5. Has fun being silly. 

    6. Gets along with everyone. 

    7. Loves my family. 

    8. Reminds me to relax.

    9. Makes me feel genuine.

    10. Believes in us 100 percent. 

     
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    MrsT2Bee    June 12, 2010   Ontario, Canada

    :) I'll play!!

    1. He cooks dinner for me almost every night.

    2. He lets me sleep in whenever I want, even though I resent him for sleeping in when I have to go to work on a Saturday morning.

    3. "Whatever you want hunnie".

    4. He has a great sense of style.

    5. He's the most kind and caring person I've ever known, and would go to the end of the earth for me. 

    6. He's adorable with our doggie, and I know he will be an amazing Daddy someday.

    7. He does all the "man" chores around the house and the yard, and even helps me with dishes and tidying (yet, he has never asked me to help him mow the lawn ;))

    8. He dedicates a lot of time and hard work to his education so he can get a great paying job, so I can be a SAHM in the future. 

    9. He's my shoulder to cry on on the "down" days, and he is right there to keep me smiling and laughing on the "up" days :)

    10. He's DAMN sexy!!

     
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    mimi06d    November 2010   Northern Virginia

    1. He loves our doggies like little humans. 

    2. He rubs my feet after a long day even though they look like Fred Flintstone. 

    3. He comes to high school cheerleading competitions to watch the team I coach compete even though I'm pretty sure he hates it. 

    4. He makes me laugh, alot. And he laughs at my bad jokes. 

    5. I have to set 4 different alarms in the morning to wake up and he never, ever complains. 

    6. He takes the time to explain things to me that I don't understand. Like how microwaves work or why flashovers happen.

    7. He supports me in everything I do and encourages me to go for my dreams. 

    8. He's genuine and kind. He makes me feel loved every day. 

    9. He's passionate about work, his hobbies, and us. 

    10. He puts his family first, before everything, and I really admire him for it. 

     
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    TG20    October 15, 2011  

    1)He tells me he loves my everyday even if we have a fight

    2)He sits with me and tells me everything's going to be ok when I'm going through a rough time

    3)He knows how to push my buttons (in a good way)

    4)He sits with me and holds me when he knows its going to thunder (I am scared of thunder and lightning)

    5)He gives me an early wake up call every morning to save my a$$ from getting fired! I am not the most punctual of people

    6)He always enjoys my cooking

    7)He's so gentle with our cats, treats them like babies which foreshadows in my mind to when we'll have our own kids

    8)He'll pick up a gossip magazine for me when I'm feeling down b/c he knows the non-sense written in there will instantly cheer me up

    9)He gets along with my parents so well and like being with me, as do they

    10)He always puts me first so I know I can trust him forever

     
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    nature_girl    July 10, 2010  

    1. He makes me laugh every day--even on the days he drives me nuts.

    2. He's smart.

    3. He lets me get away with more crankiness than I let him...

    4. He is a great dancer and loves to dance with me!

    5. I can always count on him to take care of anything that needs to be done, with the wedding or otherwise. If I say I'm out of contact solution, he's out the door to go buy some more, no matter what time it is. And he comes home with chocolate too.

    6. He's supportive of whatever I want to do re: my job or education.

    7. He is not a bit possessive or jealous.

    8. He lets the whole world know how much he loves me.

    9. He has a good relationship with my family and helps them out if they need it.

    10. He can say "I'm sorry" and he listens to me vent.

     
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    bride2bejc    June 25, 2011   Live in Jersey City, Wedding was in NYC

    Love it! We really have a lot to LOVE about them!!

     
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    picturemeurs    February 2012  

    1. He makes me laugh

    2. He holds my hand just when I need him to

    3. He understands things no one else will

    4. He's a great listener

    5. He's a hard worker and I know he'll be a great father and provider

    6. He's spoils me, esp days when he just want to make me feel better

    7. He's great company.

    8. He's there for me whenever I need a friend and support.

    9. He's makes me feel special everyday

    10. He's too SEXY. Can't believe he's all mine.

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    1. He gives me a kiss every time he leaves the house, goes to bed, and when we wake up in the morning (even when we're fighting)

    2. He will be totally silly to make me laugh

    3. He is actually willing to talk about "us" and work to make things better when we fight (so much better than guys who think it is supposed to be easy all. the. time)

    4. cuddles with serious skill

    5. has adopted my dog as his own and calls him "ours" to other people-- so freakin cute

    6. cleans the bathrooms and takes out the trash bc i hate dirty jobs

    7. cleans the house whenever i leave for the weekend

    8. tells me i'm beautiful even when i'm all sweaty from the gym

    9. works his but off studying for the cfa so that he can get a better job and make more money for our future

    10. is willing to do anything to make me happy (example: WEDDING lol)

     
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    Miss Chapstick    September 2009  

    1. He makes my sandwich every morning for lunch. Aww :)

    2. He walks the dog when it's just too cold outside.

    3. He'll sleep in the guest room if I really need the bed to myself at night and he won't complain about it (I'm a light sleeper).

    4. He'll randomly pick up the entire bill when out with friends just to be nice. 

    5. If I realllly want something, but reallllyyyyyy don't want to go out to get it, he'll do it without complaining.

    6. He's really patient in the winters when I go through SAD mood swings.

    7. He loves our very girly dog with a very girly name as much as I do :)

    8. His biggest goal in life is to provide for me, and our future kids. He has a really strong work ethic.

    9. He loves my mom as much as he loves his own.

    10. He supports every decision I make as long as it makes me happy.

     
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    JoannaNite    July 2012  

    Aww! I love this thread!

    1) Gave me my son :)

    2) He's the best "worst" singer (His off-key "Blaze of Glory"? Best i've ever heard)

    3) His glasses...his face...his body... :P

    4) His lap makes a really great pillow.

    5) He's never shy about saying I love you.

    6) I never have to ask him to help with the baby, he's always ready and willing.

    7) The fact he reads my Cosmo's and doesn't care when I tease him about it.

    8) Blushes when I tease him...and then teases me back

    9) He's so sweet to his Mom!

    10) However stressed out or angry or sad I am he can always calm me down or cheer me up, or just let me vent when I need it.

     

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    Love this post!

    1. He makes me laugh uncontrollably when I do something silly that he thinks is cute.
    2. He puts up with my mom - that's a feat in itself!
    3. He will make my lunch for me if I don't feel like doing it myself
    4. He has dinner started almost every night b/c he gets home 2 1/2 hours before I do!
    5. When we used to live in our condo, he used to go outside in the winter and scrape my car for me so that I didn't have to
    6. He let's me sleep in just a few more minutes on the weekends (b/c you know...the extra 2 minutes makes a huge difference).
    7. He dusts the house for me b/c he knows I have awful allergies and hate dusting!
    8. He absolutely adores our niece and nephew and helps out my brother and SIL whenever they need it - the true family man!
    9. He knows just what to say or do to calm me down and make me not worry - I'm a huge worrier, and he keeps me sane!
    10. He loves me! What could be better than that??
     
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    sweetpea1031    March 19, 2011  

    I love this post! ok here I go

    1) He is the most thoughtful, considerate man ever! He even bought me a bridal magazine the day after we got engaged because he knows how excited I am.

    2) He is very affectionate... honestly that man kisses my cheek or face or hand so many times a day I wouldn't even begin to count! And cuddles all night.

    3) He is so smart, a huge history buff! He tries to impress me with factoids and new stories he knows I am interested in. And he is a great problem solver.

    4) He is ALL man! He is handy, strong, tall and protective.

    5) Did I mention he is a hunk?! He wears glasses, and when he takes them off and gives me this look it totally melts me.

    6) He is sentimental! He remembers details from our first date and important days to us. He absolutely cherishes things like the shirt I wore on our first date.

    7) He has a wonderful sense of character and morality. He and I are both close to God and sharing that is wonderful.

    8) He is honest and trustworthy. He is honestly the most loyal man I have ever met.

    9) He makes me laugh... all the time! Everytime we are together we smile and kiss and cuddle the whole time.

    10) He loves his family and they are clearly important to him. He cares so much about his mom and sister especially that it is wonderful!

    There are so many more, but he makes me feel like the luckiest girl on the planet!

     
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    Miss Austin    October 10, 2010   Fairhope,AL

    1.) He can make me smile no matter what

    2.) He car dances with me...hehehehe

    3.) He is my best friend

    4.) Im away from my parents and when i get homesick he will always give me extra money so i can go see them.

    5.) He is giving the wedding of my dreams even though we have to pay for it....just to make me happy.

    6.) He is so forgiving....I have been soooo emotional with our families being out of town and planning our wedding by myself.

    7.) He is my SEXY MARINE!!!

    8.) He wants to start a famliy as soon as possible bc he cant wait to be a daddy to our kids....makes my heart melt to see him with our godkids

    9.) He is my heart..my rock

    10.) He wants ME to be his Wife...and i still cant believe how lucky i am!!!

     
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    elliejoy    May 30, 2010  

    Just got married and have been so eagar to brag on my new husband!!

    1.  Gets up with me at 330AM to make my breakfast (and packs my lunch too)!

    2.  Kisses me before I leave the house AND each time that I return.

    3.  Oftens holds my hand as we drift off to sleep. 

    4.  Is a fabulous Dad to our kids (from my prev marriage).  Gets them off too school, and knows their likes and dislikes. 

    5.  Is a wonderful Papa (grandpa) to our two granddaughters.  Insanely patient and changes diapers with no fuss at all.  Learning so many Nick Jr characters!! 

    6.  Really great to take trips with (Seven of us just got back from a 3-day car trip to a waterpark--that would be us, 3 kids and 2 grandkids--ages 1 & 2 yrs).

    7.  Cooks for me ALL the time (and I used to be the cook in the family--we like to cook together too).

    8.  The MOST generous man that I have ever known (or ever heard of).  Generous with his time, money; everything.  

    9.  Made the sunroom into a diningroom because it was important to me.  :)

    10.  Really wonderful to just BE with; nice company and great problem solver.  Makes me not take life too seriously.

    11.  Helped make our back deck wedding & bbq happen in a terrific way!  He didn't understand all the cool DIY details, but admired them and played along! 

     

     

     
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    mrsae2010    September 17, 2010   Wisconsin

    only ten?? reading this has made me add to the list!!

    1) He's my best friend and loves me. He will say anything about anyone to make me feel better. Especially when my so-called best friends ditch out on me over and over.

    2)  He makes sure I always have what I need whether its food in my stomach, gas in my car or just something I really want like a new book, magazine or outfit. He also helps take care of my family if needed whether its loaning my sister money when she is in a tough spot, selling her his dad's car for cheap after he passed even though it was really hard, getting my parents some groceries just to help out that month

    3) Treats our cats like their our children, a few funny examples: Our first cat we adopted, Midori, her nicknames from him are princess midori and midorals. Our second cat we've had since she was 7 weeks, Melissa, is our baby. He holds her like one, gives her kisses, always cuddling with her and me (Midori isnt a cuddler) and will point out he's with his babies or says 'our little family. The BEST BEST THING: He had a dream he was dancing with our daughter on her wedding day - the kicker- it was a 5 foot tall version of Melissa!!!! (almost pee'd my pants laughing)

    4) He ALWAYS MAKES ME LAUGH. He will act like a child sometimes and I cant help but laugh and think how cute he is. He will channel his childhood and talk with his speech impediment or just say funny things like "can I take a bubble bath and play with my ships?"

    5) He will cook for any of my friends that comes over (whether he likes them or not and its usually so he looks good) and its delicious.

    6) He is a History/Science/Movie/Music Buff!

    7) He loves my nieces and nephews. He has been there since the day one of my nieces was born and we have been like a second set of parents to her. He would do anything for them or get them anything. Way before we got engaged, he asked me if we ever split up if he could still see them. (I told him we were a packaged deal haha)

    8) He lets me do my thing. Go out with the girls, Go away for a few days to visit friends (of course he calls me every night before bed and tells me he misses me and he is looking at my picture, haha)

    9) He plays guitar and he is so good! and its sexy! He will play me something to help me fall asleep and after hearing some country songs I loved he went straight home and started working on writing me a song. aww

    10) He is just so caring! He was almost done with school and becoming a police officer when he took a first responders class. That was when he decided he really wanted to help people and switched over to nursing (which set his schooling back 3-4 years).

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    11) He tickles my back! haha not often but he does. When I was a baby, my mother would tickle my back to get me to fall asleep and did this throughout my toddler years. It has forever stuck with me and I love having someone do this. He thinks it weird and whether he wants to or not, he will do it without me asking. If Im just laying in bed or we are cuddling watching a movie, he just does it.

    I LOVE MY FI

     
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    AnamCara    April 10, 2010   Ireland/Connecticut

    What a great thread!

    I could go on and on but here's the quick list!

    1. Unlimited hugs & kisses
    2. Drives me to the bus stop every day
    3. Picks me up from the bus stop every day :o)
    4. Lets me vent about anything and everything and listens
    5. Appreciates what I do for him
    6. Along with me looks forward to the day we have children
    7. Is generous to a fault with his time, energy and yes even his money
    8. Is as happy to see me after we’ve been apart as I am to see him
    9. Does his best to show me how much he loves me in little unexpected ways and in bigger grand ways
    10. Is so hard working, smart and genuine
     
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    Knubbsy-Wubbsy    July 30, 2011   Central Texas
    1. He gave up drinking and smoking because of how much it bothered me (I have emotional scars that make it very difficult to be around people drinking and also have asthma)
    2. If I say I’m feeling baking, he will go to kitchen to see if we need anything and if so, will find his keys so we can run to HEB (at 11 at night)
    3. He constantly tries to improve my self image because his has been so low and he doesn’t want me to ever be like that.
    4. He thinks logically! It sounds silly but after dating guys who never discovered a love of logic puzzles it’s so nice. Also works wonderfully if we’re having a problem in the relationship.
    5. He is willing, and usually the first to initiate talks if we’re having a problem.
    6. He will suffer through Swan Princess- once in a great while (I’ve only known one other guy to watch it, and he was forced into it by the 6 girls he was driving).
    7. He respects my “me” time and encourages me to hang out with friends even if that means he’s home alone
    8. He loves Sci-Fi
    9. He knows exactly what he believes, and why.
    10. Even though my “horror stories” of falling off, crashing into fences, being laid out for two days, etc terrify him, he still supports my horse-y ambitions

    10 is especially important now that I just got two new project ponies to play with Laughing

     
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    bride2bejc    June 25, 2011   Live in Jersey City, Wedding was in NYC

    @mrsae2010:  #11 sounds like me!! I'm the same way..boht my grandma and my mom would tickle my back so now he has taken over the 'responsibility' lol

     
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    hope1275    August 7, 2010   NH

    Great thread!!!

    1) He is so understanding about my working and going to school, and how it affects my ability and motivation to do errands and chores and stuff.

    2) He tries to make sure that I eat healthy foods at all times, but has become much better about not giving me too much crap about eating.... crap. :)

    3) He's so handy with cars!

    4) He always manages to sleep as close to me as he can, even when his back is turned to me in bed, and I'll often wake up with his hand on my shoulder or hip, or his arm wrapped around me.

    5) The little things are amazing, like making lunch for me for work.

    6) He actually talks things through with me and listens to me (and vice versa), so it's very rare that we get into fights.

    7) His loyalty and integrity are evident in everything he does, and it means the world to me.

    8) He's incredibly supportive of me.

    9) He is sweet when he needs to be, but gives me a kick in the butt when I need it, too.

    10) He's just the whole package. I couldn't ask for anything more than what he already is. :)

     

    Well... if I could get him to wear his seatbelt, I couldn't ask for anything more. ;)

     

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