- 5 years ago
Quick Bio – my BF and I have been together for 5yrs he’s 30 I’m 26 we live in London which is stupid expensive. He got a flat last year and I still live at home with my mum. I have been weddiing obsessed on and off for about 18mnth -2yrs, he has always been adamant that we should live together first, me not so much, but he had my dads full support so I was ok with it. My best friend on the other hand does not believe in living together before marriage & I so get where she’s commign from, It’s not baout religion, but more about playing wife.
I am not financially ina position to live alone, I have been tmeping for the last few years and trying to pay off debts. i asked my dad if I could move in with him and my step mother almost 9mnths ago, it’s taken this long for them to sort out the house so I can join them. it’s a big move for me to the other side of London. i was dicussing with my BF about my nervousness re the move, i’m not good with change at the best of times. When he said ‘ you can move in here if you want’
So I am super excited it’s the step I really needed to feel like mey life is progressing, i feel a bit stagnant with things and it doesn’t help that my friends are starting their own businesses, getting married and having babies. Yes I know it’s not good to compare but I jaust cant help it!
So here I am about to be a grown up living with her BF, i ahve to tell my dad, which sucks because I know he’s gone to alot of trouble. i ahve to tell my best Friend who will no doubt remind me that I said I would not move in with my BF unless he knew he was wanted to marry me.
Gah! I’m sorry for the long post without actually having a question to answer but this all ahppened yesterday and I ahven’t told a soul, it’s just bubbling away in my belly and preventing me form doing anything productive at work.
Am I making a mistake? Should I wait untill he’s nearer to wanting to get married, i dont want to play wife for the next 10yrs, but I have no doubt that ther is no one else in the world for me and I bo he feels the same?
If you’ve made it to the bottom of this post, thank you, I think I just needed to share.
Apologies for posting in the waiting Boards but I wasn’t sure what qualifie as a waiting bee