- 3 years ago
- Wedding: February 2011
Hi Bees, I am a regular user on here going annyonmous due to the nature of this topic so no noe gets hurt or so that anything gets taken out of context.
Here is goes, I have worked for the came company for about 5.5 years and we are small so we are all very close. This one co worker that sits next to me has become close since we see each other for over 40 hours a week and sit right next together. We like any other office go back and forth with humorous banter but and until recently, I haven’t really thought much of it. He is about 13 years older than me and has been married for over 15 years and myself has been married for just over 3 years.
We have eachother’s phone numbers because when I first started working here we were in the same dept., so from time to time we would have text about work related issues.
A couple of weeks ago, he was away on a business trip and I had to text him about something work related since I was covering for someone else that works with him who was on vacation. This was toward the end of the day and our converstaion carried on until 9pm that evening.
Now I know that I am to blame for maybe baiting some of these texts and I am in no way saying this is all him because I am guilty too. I just wanted to get some unbiased opinions on them.
Here are couple to give you an example:
(we were talking about my birthday that was in a few days andhe knows that I am obessed with channing tatum)
Me- hmm do you have a channing handy? that could help ya know
Him-Somehow if I brought him I would be forced to wait in the car
Me-Now way why would you ever think that?
Him-Well then, i’ll see if i can dig one up, any other look alikes I can find for you?
Me-No, I think that’s it, best bday present ever!
Him-Channing Tatum birthday spankings, oh how a girl can dream.
Me-Nothing says love like a channing tatum beat down haha
Him-I think we have a very different idea of what a birthday spanking is, you twisted little girl, you. But hey, if that’s what you want.
Me-You said it not me, sorry not sorry.
Him-You’re going to be sorry lol
Me- I can’t stop, won’t stop
Him-Neither will I.
Here’s another quick section from that convo, he hunts and a cabin in which he always says he nick names his “camp” and he jokes that he was going to take me there for some attitude adjustment when I get sassy at work…inside joke if you will
Me- Well then I don’t think (my husband’s name) will let me go to camp with you, sorry
Him-Keep messing with him and I think he might change his mind. Besides, I’ll just tell him I nicknamed it camp attitude adjustment andhe will ship you off for a weekend in a minute.
me-Oh I’m sure I can talk him into that no problem, as long as I come back in one piece.
Him-Of course, and with a half scared, half excited look in you eyes lol.
Ok there was more but that would take me forever to type. So yes I know I am guilty too but now he kind of acts funny around me after this convo. And I’m not sur ehow to take it, plus we were discussing marriage the other day and how you promise that one person you will be faultful and with them forever andhe says, yeah but how many PB&J sandwitches can you eat?
So what do you bees think?? Sorry this is so long and thank you for your (kind ihope) but honest opinions.