Thank before you bank? (wedding gift checks)

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
436 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

@bmo88:  I for one, hate not having a balanced check book. I don’t like waiting for people to cash the checks I write to them, so I would rather them cash it and then write a thank you.

Post # 5
Member
9057 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I prefer people cash the cheque ASAP so it clears my account while I’m still accounting for it.

I’ll give a little slack for time if I get a photo card and a handwritten thank you.  I understand those take some time.

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