Thank you card etiquette, HELP!

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Better late than never!

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@seattlefashionista:  I had mine done within a week. Honestly, I’d think 2 months was a bit long, but better late than never.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’d rather have it late than not have it at all. How many do you have to write?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

@seattlefashionista:  Sending them late is better than never. I would be a little more effusive in my gratitude and add a line apologizing for the delay though.

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Get them out ASAP! We’ve gotten thank you notes a month or two after the event, so it’s not a huge deal… if you get them out SOON!

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Better late than never! TBH as someone who has planned a wedding I probably wouldn’t even think about it too much if I got one two months later. Since they were all probably at the shower they know you received it so at least do they’re not wondering if it shipped to your house okay.

I had mine written within a week but I also had a couple of vacation days that had to be used that week (or I would lose them) so that helped a lot!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Better late than never. I would make sure that they at least go out before your wedding.

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2011

You’re fine to still send them now. 🙂 I think most people are pretty understanding about that stuff.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@seattlefashionista:  I would write five a day and have them out in a week. Or ten a day and have them done in three days.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I had mine done the weekend after my shower. Two months for a bridal shower is a little long in my opinion. DEFINETLY get them out to your guests before you wedding!!!!!!!

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

well its been 3 months and guests still havent gotten thank yous from my wedding. I was waiting for the pictures which i got back a month ago… then i got busy and stopped caring. still don’t care. i’ll get them out on monday.

 

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