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Hi bees! 

I'm hoping you can help me decide what to do about my thank you card situation.  DH and I decided we'd each do thank you cards for our own wedding guests.  Mine were sent a month after the wedding and his are about half done and sent now, 9 months after the wedding. I am feeling horrible that we still haven't written thank yous to half of his guests.  I told DH that I would just write them all at this point, but he says that its his job to write the rest of the thank yous and he will get it done soon. For some reason he really doesn't want me to do it. It could be because when he actually sits down to write them, he writes really amazing notes, where mine sound a bit more generic. 

We are seeing his family this weekend, most of whom haven't gotten a thank you yet.  DH is away on business this week, so he wont be writing any thank yous before the weekend.  Should I at least write thank yous to the people we'll be seeing and send them out? I was thinking that I could write a short thank you for their gift and help with the wedding, and DH could write another more personal card to each of his family members when he has more time.

What do you think? Should I write the thank yous and send them out now, or keep waiting for DH to finish them himself?

Explain to him that his failure to write the notes is becoming embarassing and a poor impression for both you and him.  Tell him he has one week, and then you are writing and sending them out, whether he likes it or not.  If the guests you are seeing this weekend mention it, act surprised and tell them that each of you was responsible for your own guest list.