(Closed) Thank you note question

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@mspartridge:  Tough one. I would only send it to Jane Smith. 

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

I’d try to get whichever parent is aunt’s sibling to talk to aunt about it. If not, I’d write it just to the aunt.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Cedar Lake Cellars

I would send it to Jane.  But I would also send one to Ann and Bob for attending.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

Send Jane a TY. I wouldn’t worry about the other two yet, they may not have gotten around to sending their gift-we had a few wait about a month to send them.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

It is most polite to always assume that guests are doing the right thing.  It is best to reply with facts, then with speculation.  Thank Jane for the gift, and do not include the others.

If they were meant to be on there, they will definitely contact you to correct the error.

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