(Closed) Thank you notes- BEFORE the wedding

posted 5 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@amandasf:  I guess you could…but isn’t part of the thank you note to thank them for attending too?  You could have them all written out beforehand and then mail them out right after the wedding…

Or maybe send the thank yous to the ones that you know will not be attending…

Post # 4
242 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would highly recommend sending them out now. It will make your life easier later and let people know that their gifts were received and appreciated. Trust me, you will have a million to do after the wedding – do as many as you can now!

In my pre-wedding thank yous, I wrote about how much we looked forward to using their gifts and said, “We are so happy that you can join us for our wedding. We can’t wait to see you!”

Post # 5
4194 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

Send them out now, with a line “we are looking forward to sharing the special day with you.”

You will be SO happy to have the early thanks you out of the way! Plus, people like knowing for sure that you received the gift.

Post # 6
16216 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I would absolutely send thank you notes right away for any gifts you receive before the wedding. The person who gave you the gift will appreciate knowing that you received it and it didn’t get lost in the wedding shuffle, plus it will make life easier for you after the wedding!

Post # 7
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

go for it!

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