(Closed) "Thank you" now, or "thank you" later? Advice please…

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2011

I would do it now because you will have a rush of them right at wedding time and it is much easier to get them done as they come in than to wait until you have 100 notes to write.

Post # 4
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7908 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

Do it now since the wedding is so far off. When you get to the month before the wedding, you can wait for the rest.

Post # 5
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1278 posts
Bumble bee

Do it now, it reassures them that the you did get the gift.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

You have 2 weeks from the date a gift is received prior to your wedding and 4-6 weeks from when you return from your honeymoon to send thank yous for gifts received at the wedding.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Keep notes! For the peeps who would send gifts before the wedding, we did send thank you cards right away.  We also sent them a different thank you card for attending the wedding later on.

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I always think you should send a thank you as soon as you get the gift! That way they know you got it and that you are very appreciative.

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