(Closed) Thank you to couple who broke up? Send two cards?!

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@bakerella: I would send them both a card separately. Especially if you got along with her really well.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@bakerella: Hm, I’ve never dealt with this since I’m not married yet, but I think the right thing to do is to send two separate cards.  I don’t see how that would offend them.  You’d still be recognizing and thanking them for their generous gift, just not together.  That’s my take on it.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I agree, send each of them a card.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

I also think you should send them each a card if you have her address. It would be a nice thing for her to get something like that from you!

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I would send to both of them separately

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

We had this same thing come up. We sent seperate cards. 

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