Post # 1
Does anyone know what to do in this case: Our friends gave us a very generous gift but have broken up since the wedding. Do we send a thank you to each of them in this case? DH still talks to the guy but we haven’t really heard much from the ex-GF since they broke up (to be expected) but I always got along with her really well. I’m just a bit worried about stepping on toes. Anyone have to deal with this? Did you send to both of them seperately?
Post # 3
@bakerella: I would send them both a card separately. Especially if you got along with her really well.
Post # 4
@bakerella: Hm, I’ve never dealt with this since I’m not married yet, but I think the right thing to do is to send two separate cards. I don’t see how that would offend them. You’d still be recognizing and thanking them for their generous gift, just not together. That’s my take on it.
Post # 5
I agree, send each of them a card.
Post # 6
I also think you should send them each a card if you have her address. It would be a nice thing for her to get something like that from you!
Post # 7
I would send to both of them separately
Post # 8
We had this same thing come up. We sent seperate cards.
Post # 9
Two cards it is! Thanks ladies! I’ll have to track down her new address.