(Closed) That "Oh, Crap! We're Really Doing This" Moment!

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1785 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

As soon as I had everything addressed, stamped and on its way to be sent at FH’s work I was SO ecstatic. It was my first ‘THIS IS REALLY HAPPENING’ moment… because now everyone knows! I have ordered a metric ton of wedding related crap and this was my first moment of ‘eep!’ (Other than the proposal Wink)

Post # 4
13662 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I had that feeling when we sent out save-the-dates. It was a feeling of, not only are we planning this thing, but now people are actually going to be attending! 🙂

Post # 5
24027 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I totally had this feeling as well! I’m pretty sure DH and I shared that moment together when our save-the-dates went out. We looked at each other with these big eyes of “OMG OMG” hahaha. 😀

Post # 6
1157 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Yep!  When we ordered save-the-dates I had the same feeling…and when we put our deposit down on the wedding planner (first big wedding expense!)

Post # 7
5068 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

I am totally with you. I got very emotional when I saw our invites in my hands. I can’t wait to send them in February! 

Post # 8
298 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Sending out our save-the-dates was my first “this is really happening” moment! Crazy how all the other stuff, even finding my dress, didn’t really hit me like that did!

Post # 9
1828 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I’ve had several small moments like that but the big one was just a few minutes ago when we sent the application for the marriage license! Ack!

Post # 10
614 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@lina010:  ALL THE TIME! Sometimes I look at FI and think “This man will be my husband. WHAT??”

It’s the excited, nervous, anxious, what-the-crap feeling!

Post # 11
11226 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

I think my big moment of reality (besides my telling my DH that he could move forward with his plans to propose, as he was ready to ask me much sooner than I was certain that I was ready to say yes) was when we moved forward with the ladies and girls ordering their bridesmaids’ and junior bridesmaids’ dresses. When I thought about the fact that I was now asking OTHER PEOPLE to commit THEIR MONEY to this venture, that was pretty daunting!

Post # 12
929 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@lina010:  Putting the invites in the mail! I look back on that anticipation & excitement fondly : )

Post # 13
1380 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

One of the bees posted a picture in the worst wedding photos thread. Her and FI are on a blanket holding “I do” letters and she said the photography said to look t each other and think about how they’re getting married and their looks totally made me think of this thread!! 

The moment hasn’t crept up on me yet but every now and then I think of a detail (like dress shopping!) that makes me go “woah we’re actually going to have a WEDDING. Insanity”

Post # 14
5273 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Haha, I had this moment when I wrote the check for the venue. 

The venue was our first wedding purchase and as my hand raised to give the lady the check, my hand was shaking, lol! 

My husband yells out “your hand is shaking,” and we all just cracked up. 🙂 It was a total “we are really doing this” fun/nervous/butterfly moment. 

Post # 15
12259 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I didn’t get that until people started asking about how soon the wedding date was!

Post # 16
41 posts
  • Wedding: July 2014

Ditto to the save-the-date emotions. Additionally, I got excited after guests started receiving them and visiting our website … So I had another “moment” when I checked the page visits and it was at 70! haha

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