Post # 1
Last year my bachelorette party was a disappointment because everyone in attendance decided to be cheap and rude to my friend, who planned the whole thing. A few girls in particular made a huge deal about spending $30 to get into a bar (it was a bachelorette party type deal) since we were already doing dinner and needed a hotel. Okay, fine. I don’t need a fancy bar. They complained the WHOLE night, We didn’t even go but they couldn’t believe she would ask that of them. My friend was harassed up until the wedding because she made them pay too much, even accusing her of keeping some of the hotel money since they MUST have pais too much. Ugh.
Jump to now. One of the girls that attended my bachelorette party, one that was VERY rude is getting married next month. Her MOH just e-mailed us the bachelorette party plan. Gee, sounds familiar. It is the plan my friend came up with for MY party. I plan on going an enjoying myself. I don’t want to ruin her party like she ruined mine so I don’t plan on saying anything but I am just so mad and kind of hurt that they are okay with it now.
Sorry, there isn’t really a point to this. Thanks for letting me get this out and sound like a whiny brat for a minute.
Post # 3
@savealife: Oh man that really sucks. I can totally understand why you’re mad about. Are folks’ finances in a different place now than last year? That might account for some of the rudeness. Account but not excuse if you know what I mean. You’re a great friend to be able to keep things in perspective and go for your friend.
Post # 4
You are better person then I am, thats for sure. Sorry they were so rude, that is really unacceptable.
Post # 5
I hope she has some realization and thanks you for going to the trouble & expense for her.
Post # 6
@savealife: I wouldn’t attend. That might sound b1tchy, but if she spoiled my bachelorette, why should I attend hers?
Post # 7
@savealife: That’s really annoying. Like it’s too much to ask when it’s for someone else, but since it’s for her now, it’s reasonable? She sounds like a self-absorbed jerk! Still, good for you for being the bigger person.
Post # 8
- Wedding: October 2014 - Church
You are a much bigger person than a lot of people would be about something like that. I mean, I really don
t understand why they would complain about it during <em>your party </em>when you didnt have any control over the planning. Then they go and plan the same thing that they complained about? Whether or not they are in a bad place financially did not excuse their behaviour (there is a way of saying you have a smaller budget without being rude). Kudos to you for the support you are showing your friend.
Post # 9
No one is in a better place financially that is why I am so annoyed. I don’t want to go and plenty of people told me I shpuldn’t but I think I would regret it if I didn’t.
I am glad other people would be mad in this situation, I was feeling a little pety.