(Closed) The Army’s holding onto the hubby…an EJS personal vent.

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

*Hugs*

 

Post # 4
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340 posts
Helper bee

I’m sorry EJS *hugs* I know how much of a pain the Army can be, ESPECIALLY when it comes to paperwork. It’s like whenever it’s something you need they can take their sweet time but when it’s the other way around it’s the opposite.

My fiance has been deployed since March and just got his orders showing that he was being deployed a week or so ago (which we needed to get out of leases etc.). You would think those kind of things would be needed before they ship out.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

That sucks, ejs!  Seriously, sucks.  I know you know things will get better, but just in case…  Hang it there!  Hugs!  You can do it!!!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Haha good analogy. So sorry this is happening to you, EJS. How frustrating! I wish we could all do something to help..but the Army world is far beyond the hive’s abilities, as you know! Just know we’re all here to listen to you vent when you need it!

 

*hugs*

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Oh boy. FI is a sailor and we have been together for almost five years. I know all about civillians messing up paperwork. I feel for you guys, I really do. You really feel helpless at times when dealing with this sort of stuff, they just pass the blame around until they loose your complaint too.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

So sorry EJS!! Hope you get to be with your man soon and all works out for the best.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m so sorry. =  (  **HUGS**

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I’m so sorry to hear that EJS! I know I have a lot of things like that to look forward to as part of Army wifedom, so I feel your pain!

Post # 13
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606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I hope everything works out for you like you want them to. Sorry stuff sucks right now. 🙁 *hugs*

Post # 14
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

ive been told that to fix up a pay problem with the military can take a very very long time but to actually stuff up someone’s discharge from service is huge.  hopefully they will sort it out quickly Ej!!!!!

 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Oh man oh man, I am so sorry Ejs. How horrible it all must be! When are you getting the surgery? it’s so awful!

hugs hugs hugs!

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Oh yuck, ejs.  Why is the military always so inept with paperwork? I have the worst time with my military family patients and the referrals, etc etc etc.  BIG HUGS your way, and hope it pans out in the end!!!! <3

 

Edit: I am also really sorry to hear about the endometriosis worsening.  While it sucks you’re being passed off, hopefully the person your gyno is referring to knows what they’re talking about and go through all the options with you.  Do you have a close girl friend or family member that can help you out after surgery?

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