(Closed) The “B” word!!

posted 9 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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3162 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Oh jeez not yet thank god. He’s a few years older than me, though, so I hope he can chill out on the "B" word for a few years.

Post # 4
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97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

My husband totally did! Ever since the wedding he brings up having kids at least once a day. And I thought I was bad 🙂

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Yes my FI definitely has the baby bug. 

He is 6 years older than I and doesn’t have kids of his own, and having such a wonderful relationship with my 7 yr old I think just accelerates the wanting of his own.  Good thing is he wants to wait until we are married but knowing him that means on the wedding night.

I’m not 100% sure how I feel about it yet b/c of the hard times I had when I had my little girl, plus not to mention he may get deployed again in 2011

Post # 7
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Blushing bee

that makes total sense to me.  my mister had a really hard time getting ready to consider marriage because in his mind marriage means being a provider and a father, etc.  so i think it is a really easy transition from marriage to fatherhood for men.  i think women tend to view each event individually.  

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Wow what is going on with these men?? Lol DF is the same way!! I have finally convinced him we should wait but he keeps hinting at a honeymoon baby!!  I want at least a year of married life together before we do that.  He says he’s not getting any younger.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Girl, my FI caught the baby bug early in our relationship. If it wasn’t for me we would have had a baby or two but I wanted to wait until we were married. We agreed that once we are married whatever happens, happens. Like in "My Big Fat Greek Wedding", I wouldn’t be surprised if I am impregnated the day after the wedding, lol!

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

My FI doesn’t have the baby bug, but I do have him convinced that we shouldn’t wait too long after we get married to try. He’d love to stay childless for a couple years, but I’m 33, so I don’t want to wait too long before we start.

Post # 11
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340 posts
Helper bee

Haha My fiance did the same thing. He wants kids really bad, like now. So I have been fighting him tooth and nail to atleast wait until we are married.  My parents would KILL me, like kill me dead if I got pregnant before I was married hehe. He also wants too have a lot of babies, like 4 I was like "Hold up Cowboy, maybe 2".

He even gets pouty when I go to get my birth control shot lol. He’s convinced I don’t need it. But as of right now we don’t have a choice about having a baby seeing as how he is in Afghanistan.

When he gets home though, we will probably start going at it again about when to have them.

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