- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
we are engaged since 5 months, proposal was more than romantic and extravagant!
Our wedding will be romantic and special too.
Only downside: We moved for his job to the Middle East, so everything will be tiny and without close friends and family.
Anyway, and here starts my dilemma: Obviously he has his friends here ( his work mates) I had ONE friend, but she moved away for good. HIS friends planned his Bachelor Party, I will not have one, not for now. But, I just dont know how to deal with it. If he has to go out and get wasted, fine no problem for me. Srip Club would even be fine ( here isnt any- but escort ladies that would do anything for money) But the thought of an other woman touching y man???I told him my concern, he said he wouldnt expect any adult service to be available anyway here and me not to be worried. Good, i was fine with it until he started joking about it and it seriously pissed me off! Then over here adult service IS available ( after i done some research).
Its driving me nuts and mad! He went to strip clubs and me with him too, nothing happend obviously, but he would never spend money for private dance or so. But his friends?, its just this hype about the BACHELOR PARTY! Why a lap dance on this night? Would this hurt me less? Well no, I would feel really bad, why is this night an exception? WHy should i accept for one night, that an other woman is humping and jumping on him, he touches her breast and what ever! Thats not faithfull? I dont go and touch other guys or like cream off them?
I dont even know if it will happen, i will know for sure after tonight, his friend is not the best secret keeper, especially with me…And he tells me everything anyway.
But what if it happens,,,what should i do? I would be devastated….sad…hurt.
May i have read too much stuff about that? Oh, m really freaking out here :