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So FI went to his evil GM's bachelor party this weekend and the following things occurred:

• the evil GM (hereafter referred to as groom)'s asshole brother and a bunch of the groom's douchey college friends lied to FI and the rest of the groom's high school friends about how much the weekend would cost per person and used the extra money to buy themselves cocaine
• one of the groom's college friends, who is married and has a pregnant wife at home, went home with a random chick from the bar and slept with her
• and, last but certainly not least, the groom brought a girl home to their rental house and made out with her

So, if you are of the mentality that that nothing can get shady if there aren't strippers involved, you're wrong.

BTW, FI is disgusted with his GM, wants to kick him out of our wedding and end the friendship but has decided to just wait until after our wedding and then cut him out of his life. I personally don't even want to go to their wedding and spend money on transportation, hotel, gift, etc. because dude is a fucking scumbag and their marriage is destined for failure anyway. Ugh. I'm so disgusted it's not even funny and I'm really hoping this asshole doesn't come to FI's bachelor party.

Yikes, that makes me sick. Not all men are pigs though. And I will keep telling myself that until my FI comes back from a bachelor party next weekend lol

That is beyond disgusting.

karma is real - you know those slobs are going to have $hitty lives if they're always behaving like that. Good that you and your FI are separating from them.

That is awful and Im happy that your FI is not happy with his friends behavior.  Id like to hope that this group of guys is outside the norm and I believe definitely all bachelor parties are not like that! yuck!

@marjojo- Haha love it! Does anyone wanna lend me a brother to use for a weekend? hehe

@MissHelen - he definitely does not want him in the wedding and hasn't for a while now before any of this even happened but it's kind of just too late and not worth the drama of kicking him out. FI (and also FI's best man, who was also there and appaled by all this) have already decided that they are cutting this guy out of their lives once our wedding is over so they are just sort of letting it ride for another few months and then they are done.

Sadly I don't have any brothers but I also trust FI 100% and I'm not worried about him getting involved in any sort of crap like that his bachelor party weekend. I just dont want this guy to be there bringing coke and sleaziness to the party and possibly causing drama when FI just wants to chill and have a good time.

I'm REALLY glad that I am not at all close with this guy's fiance because I would either feel obligated to tell her who she is marrying or guilty for not telling. I'm not close with either of them, though, so I'm just not even involving myself at all. I'll go to their stupid wedding and drink their booze and keep my mouth shut. FI really wishes he hadn't seen it but he's not close with the bride either so he's just like I am SO not getting involved in this. We will go to their wedding because we have to but we will be uncomfortable the entire time.

I'm also really pissed now because FI also invited this guy's a-hole brother and his wife to OUR wedding. Hopefully he won't bust out an 8-ball and rip lines of coke off our charger plates but at this point nothing would surprise me. UGH.

HA no if it was my FI I wouldn't be on WB right now cause I'd be in jail for slitting his throat in his sleep.

Way gross.

I always wonder how men can deceive women so well, kinda scary.  I mean with some you feel like it's obvious and the woman's just clueless but some are just really cunning.

@Ottawa - I'm one of those people that doesn't really care about any pictures that aren't of me and my FI (or pics with our parents). We're doing like one or two formal shots with the wedding party and then going off on our own. The main reason FI isn;t gonna dump him as a GM is cause he hates drama and this guy is all about it so if he made that move it would just be worse than if he just sucked it up. Also then I'm sure this guy's fiance would start asking questions and get suspicious at to why he kicked him out and that would just turn real ugly real fast.

FI went to a bachelor party when we in the early stages of our relationship.  There was like 10+ guys there and he told me that the MAJORITY of them cheated on their wifes/GF's in some way, shape, or fashion with a "stripper" (it was Vegas so think hooker) they hired.

Him and ONE other guy (his bff) left the room because they couldn't stand to watch it.

Thankfully he's not friends with the majority of them now, he just can't condone that kind of behavior.