- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
So my fiance chose his best man and groomsmen as soon as we got engaged. I dont think he put a great deal of thought into the people he ended up choosing. We have 6 people on each side and I put thought into the people I chose to stand up for me because I knew my wedding would be different because of it being a destination wedding. All of my girls confirmed they would be there and everything on my side was gravy! As for his side it was a nightmare. He still does not have all 6 of his groomsmen confirmed and his best man was the biggest jerk alive. HE basically said he cant make it to our wedding after finding out the destination we chose (even though he was all for it before) and since he is getting married in the same year his wedding was more important. This was fine with me if he wasnt able to commit but we then find out that him and his evil fiance are talking about us all the time saying we are copying them and all this other nasty stuff about us. I barely know these people and his girlfirend texts me out of nowhere saying rude things. I finally told my fiance that he needs to tell this so called friend that he is not cut out for the role of bet man and that I dont want to spend our special day with people who talk behind our back and are not happy for us. Fiance agreed and its now done and I’m so relieved! I dont need people like this in our lives planning a wedding is stressful enough to have to deal with these jerks. I feel bad that my fiance lost a friend but I think it is better this way.