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    Osakagrl    May 8th 2010   Sacramento , CA

    Hey Everyone,

     

    I saw another thread on this so it brought up a question i have had in my mind for a long time! How often do you have an orgasm with just intercourse.

    Im going to be honest, with intercourse alone I can orgasm EVERY TIME. sometimes multiple time. I think in the past year i havent orgasmed twice? If that?

    But my friends say its not a regular thing for them to orgasm.

    So it makes me feel...weird? Like....why am I more sensitive? I dont know I may sound weird...^^;;

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    I am the exact same way and yet none of my friends "go" every time!

    I have heard that it is has something to do with the location of the clitoris and some women's clitoris gets more friction during intercourse which allows for easier orgasms.

    Don't feel weird.... ENJOY!!!!!! LOL

     
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    eloping    May 23, 2010  

    for me to O from just penetration sex i have to be on top to get the right stimulation (edit, or maybe its a control thing..hmmmm)

    you are not weird - in my book you are one very lucky gal

     
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    mountain.bride    December 12, 2009   Australia

    Definitely not weird - but definitely lucky!!! :)

     
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    Dragonsus    December 19, 2009   Lexington KY

    It all depends on you - I can get there everytime (with the right position)and often more than once, so it's not unusual, but I agree with eloping - Lucky gal!

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    Don't feel weird.  there is no such thing as weird when it comes to women's bodies.  everyone is unique.

    I also do everytime so if there's an occassional time I don't I get all pouty and think of that sex and the city episode when Samantha was scared she used up all her orgasms.  :-)

     
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    gingerlex    June 25, 2011   UK

    Nope, I'm the same, 9/10 times I achieve the big O with intercourse alone. The other 1/10 I just can't quite make it but enjoy myself anyway!

     
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    CurlyDreamer    patiently waiting   Bay Area

    No, you're not weird to be able to "get there" with just intercourse. I forget the percentage of women who can, but it's not as high as women who can't, so you're lucky (and also normal).

    I can "get there" during intercourse, but only in certain positions. I still try to have fun either way. :)

     

     
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    mimosa    May 29, 2010   NC

    It depends.. I only orgasm if I'm on top.. so whenever I'm not feeling lazy?? lolol

     
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    Ms.Teddy    April 2011   South Carolina

    I cant through only sex....le sigh* so I am very jealous...does it feel any different then when you orgasm through like oral sex? just curious...please fill me in...lol

     
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    nevjcu    July 10, 2010  

    As long as I'm on top,  I can!

     
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    thefuturemrsjohnson    April 3, 2010   Whittier, California

    Listen to Dr. Drew - you are LUCKY! This is NOT normal but other people would KILL to be like that!
    Just be thankful and remind your man how lucky he is that he doesn't hvae to work as hard as some other guys.
    On a side note - I take multiple trips to "O"regon (that is what we call it) each time and I don't hear my man bitching about it - it's a game for them - see how many times they can make it happen - can they beat the last record - can they make it happen if they do this faster then if they do that??
    Good times!!

     
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    Osakagrl    May 8th 2010   Sacramento , CA

    Mrs. Teddy, 

     

    YES YES YES ! It feels completely different for me for orgasming during sex compared to "fun time". 

    Its sooo much more extreme. 

     

    Also my boy and I have gotten down the art of orgasming at the exact same time. its amazing, it heightens the whole experience!

     
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    eloping    May 23, 2010  

    ((nodding yes to Osakagrl))  Mrs Teddy i can concur - 2 very different feelings for me for 2 different O's, both loud though which amuses hubby very much

     

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    No weird----lucky :)

     
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    jaybird12    September 6, 2014   Boston, MA

    I agree with other posters that it is

    1. Not weird at all!

    2. Orgasms from different things feel very different. I prefer the orgasm from sex alone, honestly; I find it much more intense and consuming.

    Just embrace your ease at orgasming! (Ever wake up from a sex dream because your orgasmed? That's fun...)

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    *bows head in shame* I just recently begane to hit the big "o". And it was solo. I haven't ever hit the "o" vaginally. So jealous.

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    You aren't weird. I'm the same way. And they are different. Both are good, but I prefer the intercourse ones to oral, although I like both in every session.LOL

     
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    Lees4308    March 13, 2010   Panama City Beach, FL.

    Gosh, I remember posting about me not even being able to have an O!!! It freakin' sucks! LOL..so to answer you question about how often I O with just intercourse...hm, none...:( It stinks! I've taken a lot of the ladies advice on here, though, and I'm going to find out what I enjoy most!!!

     
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    I_Heart_Books    September 4, 2011  

    I'm very jealous of you! I have been with my fiance for many years and have never been able to have the big O with intercourse only. Mine are usually from oral. 

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    I'm the same too.  I do everytime (at least once!) and it doesn't take me that long either.  We must be freaks of nature ;o)

     
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    Roux    December 2, 2012   Ballarat, Australia

    I have never from just intercourse. I always enjoy myself, but I can only O if I'm going solo or from oral. So consider yourself lucky!

     
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    lilybee       The treasure coast

    It's just like you said, you're more sensitive.  Everyone is different.  Some women can't climax without clitoral stimulation, others can.  For me, I do climax from intercouse, but it's not the same as when I climax from clitoral stimulation.

     
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    cbgg      

    That's a special gift you have girl.  Don't feel weird, feel BLESSED.

     
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    LittlestBirds    July 24, 2010   Seattle, WA

    It's extremely rare, if not impossible, for a woman to orgasm without clitoral stimulation, so those of you who get one every time must have figured out the right rhythm with your partners, good for you! Many many men and women alike have no idea how to stimulate a woman to orgasm, due to prevailing falsehoods in society that everyone ought to be able to climax with penetration alone. Pornography is a huge culprit here, due to its habit of filming shots of couples having sex with almost no physical contact other than vaginal intercourse - the clitoris is usually nowhere near the scene of the action. (Well, it's only a few inches away, but what a difference a few inches makes.) Those of you who are having trouble, try positioning yourselves in such a way that exerts pressure on your clitoris during penetration, or be sure you and your partner understand the need to stimulate the clitoris before and/or after penetration. Many women who think they're incapable of orgasm just haven't tried the right thing yet, so keep at it!

     
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    Miss Chocolate    July 24, 2010   Texas... Married in California

    @Lees4308... You're not the only one, doll... Unfortunately, I have the same problem too. I wish there was something. It only happens to me once in a blue moon. So unpredictable and completely frustrating!

    <3

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    coughing with m every.single.time i can count maybe five times in the last 19 months I haven't so maybe 99.9 percent of the time?  No matter the position but we are very very very sexually compatible.

     
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    misslaryss    May 21, 2010   Seattle, WA

    I orgasm every time- usually LOTS of times. According to Cosmo, only 7% of women are able to orgasm through penetration alone, so I guess that makes us weird, but lucky! :)

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    You are very lucky.  Most women can't orgasm from penetration alone.  But I am able to during sex with just a little bit of extra stimulation.

     

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