Completely stressed.
more by Frustratedbird
Inviting the nightmare guest...tiny rant.
David's Bridal Return
more in Dress
bridalgown.net?
Where are you going on your honeymoon and how much did it cost?
more in Boards
Wording Help purty, purty please :)

The bird is frustrated...again!

posted 1 year ago in Dress
  •  
    1.
    Member
    173 posts
    Blushing bee
    Frustratedbird    May 15, 2012  

    But for a different reason! Everything is going wonderfully with Mr. Bird, but in the midst of planning our wedding, I am having the hardest time finding my wedding dress! I'm on a budget(I would really like to keep it under $900)and have pretty specific ideas on what I want:

    -Sweetheart neckline

    -Strapless

    -Mermaid/Trumpet Silouhette

    -A decent amount of beading/lace, but nothing too froofy.

    -White/ivory

    This is so hard! I am a petite bride(5'3", about 100 pounds and on the busty side), and I just can't seem to find anything I like. Are there any bees out there with similar figures/dress ideas that have found their dream dress??

    Also-- I am totally open to wearing a dress from a past season...does anyone know how to find those? Thanks!!!

     
    2.
    Member
    350 posts
    Helper bee
    MissMellow    September 17, 2011   Atlanta, GA

    I had a couple of issues but eventually found one I liked.  I'm 5'0 and about 115.  If you're looking to save some money, you could ask about sample sale dresses as well.  Also...I had an idea of what I wanted, but once I tried them on, my ideas changed.  So definitely go outside the box a little too.  :)  Good luck!! 

     
    3.
    Member Icon
    Member
    219 posts
    Helper bee
    OneLove04210    September 4, 2011   Rochester MN

    I am a bit busty but also a bit taller 5'5 but I got Marissa 737-  Got it on sale and tax free- but from a bridal salon.  If you were open to pre-owned, I've seen my dress for around $800 (on ebay and other sites like it preownedweddingdress.com is supposed to be good).  It's silk with lace cut-outs.  Simple, clean, classic, but still with some detail work.  The other advice I can give you is to go to a sample sale or to a dress store that specializes in dresses around $1000.  A lot of stores cater to that price bracket and as long as you tell them that you are not trying on ANYTHING that's over your budget, you'll be good.  The store I went to had a discount rack with their samples- they had some nice dresses, just not mine.  Good luck!!!

     

     
    4.
    Member
    656 posts
    Busy bee
    Potatoes    May 5, 2012   Ohio

    I got my dress at www.oncewed.com It was only $75. I would check it out. :)

     
    5.
    Member
    3,706 posts
    Sugar bee
    7SEVENJ9    September 25, 2010  

    I got this dress from David's Bridal and had the neckline altered to more of a soft/sweetheart look by my seamstress. I didn't like the pointiness of the original, but loved the finished product on my day! 5'4" and wanted basically what you're asking for minus the beading/lace.

    The bird is frustrated...again! :  wedding dress petite budget Me Vs Ad

     
    6.
    Member
    173 posts
    Blushing bee
    Frustratedbird    May 15, 2012  

    That David's Bridal dress is beautifu...I'll have to look into it..thanks!

     
    7.
    Member
    387 posts
    Helper bee
    ninerz113    April 30, 2011   Cleveland, Ohio

    My dress was $800 - Wtoo Maria. I don't have a pic of me in it but here's a thread with other brides in it: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/wtoo-maria-brides

     

     
    8.
    Member
    173 posts
    Blushing bee
    Frustratedbird    May 15, 2012  

    Wait!! Holy heck stop the presses I think I just found it!!

     

    http://www.boutiqueful.com/pd-mori-lee-wedding-dress-4174.cfm

    And it's within my budget...let me know what you think...how does Mori Lee look in real life?

     
    9.
    126 posts
    Blushing bee
    Cmt83    July 8, 2016   U.S.

    I was looking at preownedweddingdresses.com for a while but became discouraged when I read about the bad practices of most wedding dress cleaners. Who is going to know that they left a yellow stain or holes or didn't even clean it (or stuck it in a washing machine), after they vacu-seal it in a box? Not the bride, she's not going to open that again. You're gonna know when you buy it from a bride who says in the item description that its been professionally cleaned and boxed. I read that in this book im reading (good book) http://www.amazon.com/Bridal-Bargains-Throwing-Fantastic-Realistic/dp/1889392391/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1300994812&sr=1-1

    I guess that site sells sample sizes too. But sample dresses are often stretched out from pple trying them on and arent the size the tag says.

    I've been looking everywhere too! Honestly, I think i will buy it from ebay because those seamstresses in china are the same kind of seamstresses designers like Maggie Sottero place their orders with. Lightinthebox.com also has great inexpensive but expensive looking dresses. And you might like this one:http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=270716785800&ssPageName=STRK:MEWAX:IT#ht_9583wt_904

     
    10.
    Member
    173 posts
    Blushing bee
    Frustratedbird    May 15, 2012  

    Thank you CMT for your insight. While I am budget conscious, I just don't think I want a preowned dress, but I am open to looking at sample sizes. I had seen a posting of a bride on here who purchased her gown from lightinthebox, and it was  lovely, and looked just like the designer photo. I get a real thrill out of getting a good deal, so I'm trying to learn more about that.

     
    11.
    Member
    7,068 posts
    Busy
    Beekeeper
    pengoala    September 4, 2011  

    What about this Alfred Angelo gown (style #2169)?  It might be a little over your budget in store, but I found them online for slightly under 900.

    The bird is frustrated...again! :  wedding dress petite budget 2169 1%20375x534

     
    12.
    Member
    731 posts
    Busy bee
    Jenbee    June 23, 2012  

    ya i would say check out alfred angelo, they are always having deals where you can get 100-300 of you dress I only paid 800 for mine, its not what your looking for but they have a very good selection in that price range.

     

     
    13.
    Member
    1,188 posts
    Bumble bee
    MissNoodles    September 14, 2011   Winnipeg, Canada

    Allure Bridals 8809.  I think it retails for about $1000.00, but you can find it on ebay for $899, New with tags, and as a corset back it won't need too much alteration.  I considered this dress seriously before going with a more casual wedding.  You could try one on in store to be sure you like it first

    http://shop.ebay.ca/?_from=R40&_trksid=p5197.m570.l1313&_nkw=allure+8809&_sacat=See-All-CategoriesThe bird is frustrated...again! :  wedding dress petite budget Allure8809

     
    14.
    Member
    3,652 posts
    Sugar bee
    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    @Cmt83: Most brides that get their dresses cleaned prior to selling don't get them boxed. This isn't practical because most potential buyers will ask for closeup photos after cleaning, or local buyers will want to try the dress on. Great majority of brides who buy preowned dresses have a good experience, granted they've done their homework and asked the right questions. If you get a dress that's misrepresented you can always go through a return or chargeback process. This would probably be a hassle but fortunately doesn't happen too often. I sold four dresses (one used & cleaned, one used & not cleaned, one unused sample, one brand new) and had four very happy buyers. Also, sample dresses are not "stretched" or change sizes from multiple people trying them on. I wish stretching a wedding dress was that easy!

    @Frustratedbird:  I love that Mori Lee you posted. Hopefully you can find one near you to try on. I would caution against Lightinthebox or any of those replica companies. Do a search on the boards and you will see more horror stories than the ones that worked out. You should be able to find a beautiful dress for $900 without having to go the replica route.

     
    15.
    Member
    569 posts
    Busy bee
    Anniebo    October 21, 2011  

    @Frustratedbird: I have a mermaid gown from Mori Lee and I LOVE it . The fabric is thick and very nice and it's constructed beautifully. She is a great choice if you want a very expensive looking dress for less. Mine was $814.

     
    16.
    Member
    313 posts
    Helper bee
    mlharrison23    October 14, 2011   IA

    What size are you looking for? That exact mori lee dress you found is on sale at prewedding.com for $350.00. I almost bought it,  I love it so much!!!!!

     
    17.
    Member
    313 posts
    Helper bee
    mlharrison23    October 14, 2011   IA

    Plus the one on prewedding comes with a veil.

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    MissBoPeep 94
    ndreighton 78
    hisgoosiegirl 56
    beargoose 55
    Mrs.KMM 46
    akp0702 42
    BetterSherm 42
    MrsBlueSeptember 41
    MrsPom 37
    Beckster329 37

    Dress

    User Posts Today
    sooner365 12
    capergrrl 7
    longtime_no_Si 7
    Tiffner 7
    sienna76 6
    dazzledbyEddy 6
    deborah.dehlinger 6
    pengoala 5
    Mrs. Chai 5
    peachacid 5
    More