The Bucks Party…

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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7397 posts
Busy Beekeeper

No I didn’t dread it at all because we had an adult conversation at the begining of our relationship about what we each consider cheating and came to a decision together about what the boundaries of our relationship our. So that took the fear right out of it for me since I trust my partner completely.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

You’re marrying the guy, don’t you trust him to comport himself with some dignity and be faithful to you? Communicate if you’re really that upset about it. Tell him you’re feeling irrationally nervy and it would mean the world to you if he could text you at a certain time that night with a “love you” or something.

What is it you’re actually afraid of?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

If you’re uncomfortable with certain things, let him know. Don’t be the girl who stays quiet to try and seem cool- those girls always seem to be the ones who end up sad.

Just communicate with him. Surely you’ve both established boundaries for what is or is not cheating before this point, so maybe just go over that discussion again to give yourself some peace of mind.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I trust FI but the guy throwing the party…I remember hearing about his.  That scares me a little.  Even if he tells them he’s not interested (he has), I’m concerned they will “surprise” him.

I’m generally okay with strippers, but not the crazy stuff I heard went down at the friend’s.  So I am a little nervous, yeah.  I just hopes he stands up for himself if necessary.

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