(Closed) The closer the wedding gets, the nicer his exwife becomes.

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
2459 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I would just ensure that no one says anything to her about the wedding.

How are you going to keep it a secret, if their children are attending?

Post # 5
1855 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I’m just going to give my honest opinion and say not to trust her.

I love scheming, and this reeks of one. I’m never “suddenly nice,” to someone, after having a negative relationship with them.

So from woman to woman- I wouldn’t trust her. I think your Fiance should ask for his son to be in the wedding, just don’t disclose ANYTHING until needed re: details/location.

Post # 7
1330 posts
Bumble bee

If you are this concerned I would honestly elope, somewhere far, far away. Incorporating the kids is nice but having the memory of some crazy psycho show up at your wedding-not so nice.

Also, I would do it the sooner the better and also keep an open line of communication with the ex. Women like this…and I have met a few, will do anything to try to get the man back.

keep an eye on his phone and PC if he won’t upfront tell you if she is sending naughty pics or privately emailing him.

I guarantee she will.

Be strong!!!!


Post # 8
9627 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@the_future_mrs:   Agree with this.  She sounds completely off her rocker.  Watch your back.

Post # 9
1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

If I was in your position I would stand my ground and not want her anywhere near my wedding.  That sounds like a disaster waiting to happen (and she sounds like a disaster that already happened)!

Post # 10
1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

keep your friends close, and keep your enemies closer!!  This is probably what she has decided to do, beware and good luck!!

Post # 11
1855 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@mrsjjohnson2b:  She told her son that she wished you died?!

She has a major case of the cray cray. Good God, keep her far away on your wedding day.

And not that I’d ever say I wish someone was dead- but in the event that I did, I would not have an epiphany and change my death wish over a month. That’s a pretty extreme thing to say!

Post # 12
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

She sounds like she has serious issues. If she behaving this erractically, attacking random people in public which she can get arrested for, I wouldn’t just be worried about the wedding I be worried about those kids, if she really is doing all those crazy things.

Don’t trust her, limit your interactions. also keep the kids in the dark with the specfic dates. Also I hope you guys planned it on a weekend that you have the kids.

People get so nasty after a divorce its crazy. My cousin also had this issue with his ex after they been broken up for four years and even though she had a new boyfriend at the time. He planned the wedding during his time of custody. Mom of course claimed over her dead body was her son attending, and it took his lawyer calling the police for her to hand his son over. That stressful and the last thing anyone should be dealing on their wedding day. But one option you guys should keep in mind if she should happen to find out the dates.

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