(Closed) The couple next door

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1404 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

It’s must have been nice to hear your SO reassure you. I hope the neighbours are evicted or at least sort themselves out. 

Post # 4
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529 posts
Busy bee

I am the same way! I have been through a divorce so even though I know that SO is looking at rings and we are planning on moving in together in the summer and have tentatively set next October as our wedding time I can’t help but think that the bubble is going to burst. Maybe he will change his mind or my insecurity will drive him crazy. It is hard for my rational brain to get the irrational side of me to shut up!! Like you I am lucky that my SO gets it and loves me through it. You should call the police so there is a complaint on record just in case. You are good to be so concerned. 

Post # 5
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1497 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

It’s definitely hard for me to be in healthy relationships now because I’ve been around so many toxic ones. It’s weird for me to not be around arguing. Your SO sounds really sweet. He’s definitely the type of guy you should keep around 🙂 

All you can really do is call the police/complain to management. They’re adults…unfortunately you can’t make them get along or break up. I’m sure that’s hard to watch though. I know it would be for me. Whenever I hear couples scream and throw things it really upsets me and gets my anxiety going from 1 to 10 instantly. 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

What a beautiful thing for your SO to say 🙂 I hope that the neighbor situation gets resolved soon for their sake and your sanity.

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