The dreaded "G" is back…but not for long.

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@figgnewton:  I would be really mad too. I strongly believe in keeping relationship issues private. If FI and I are fighting, there are only 2 people who know about it (and that’s us). I don’t want anyone else to know intimate details about our relationship as I believe they should be kept sacred. Also, it gets you nowhere to discuss problems with someone who is not involved in them – how will that resolve anything with the person who matters?

Is your DH on the same page about not talking to this guy anymore or letting him in your home? He sounds toxic and it would be nice if you and your DH had a united front against people who try and cause problems in your relationship. My FI would have cut that guy off immediately if he felt it was his place to suggest divorce. Fuck right off is what I think about people like that 😛

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@figgnewton:  oh jeez. That guy is a real piece of work. Sounds like one of those high school friends that will just faaaaaade away and then in 20 years he’ll be fat and lonely and you guys will be all happy and fulfilled and he’ll just wonder where he went wrong!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

Gosh, why would your DH tell you this. I think “g was being an ass” would be enough info next time.

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@figgnewton:  Oh, so he made those assumptions himself, it’s not that your DH told him? That’s good then! Hopefully he will cut that terrible friend out of his life. You sure don’t need that stress, especially being pregnant. My friend know better than to offer me unsolicited advice 😛

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@iarebridezilla:  LOL, exactly. Some people never grow up and by the time they realize and try to, it’s too late. Others grow up faster and end up being envied by their peers eventually. Still annoying in the meantime though.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

@figgnewton:  I would have done the same. I won’t tell FI who to be friends with but I sure as hell can say who is welcome in my living space and who isn’t. I also can be loud and proud about who I don’t like when it comes to FI’s friends. Generally we agree so it hasn’t been an issue lately. It was a huge issue in the past though. This G needs to go away! Im glad though that your DH left after the nudge over the divorce thing. If FI had a friend who was not supportive of his marriage and disrespectufl about me FI would cut him off, he actually has had to do that with certain people in the past.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@ieatunicorns:  I would want to know, too. 

OP, sorry you’re dealing with this. That kid is ridiculous. I think it’s a great idea to exclude him for your house and lives. 

Post # 12
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

I would just like to pause for a moment and give your DH props for dropping G from his life. It took guts and maturity for him to walk away from “the guys.”

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