The first "I love you"

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@FutureMrs.Lord:  We were only together a couple of weeks. We were snuggling in bed and he was just like “I love you”. I totally giggled. Lol. I told him I felt the same and we went to bed. So romantic! Haha.

Post # 4
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186 posts
Blushing bee

He told me that he loved me two months into our relationship. We were snuggling, watching a movie. I of course told him that I loved him also. It was lovely and magical and I will never forget it.

Post # 5
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167 posts
Blushing bee

We’d been dating close to 3 months, and I had told him on a Wednesday that there was something I needed to tell him the next time I saw him. Sunday came and we were at his house just laying in bed watching tv, and he kept pestering me to tell him. I’m a total tease with some things, so I was witholding just because I could tell that he knew what I was going to say (yeah, I’m a little mean haha). Eventually he just looked at me, all flustered, and said “Well if you aren’t going to say it, then I am. I love you.” I kind of squeed a little; it was the best.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@sunshine_kar:  so cute!! My SO told me a similar way 🙂

we were snuggling in his dorm room on his bed and he smiled and shyly told me he loved me 🙂 We’d been together almost a month

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

About a month and a half in. He had had a few drinks when he told me, but he said it again when he sobered up!

Post # 8
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494 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

My DH and I were in a weird situation. We were friends for 6 months, and we were in a situation where it was taboo for us to date (DH and my dad were roomates in a house of college guys, my dad was going back to get his Masters). I was already crazy in love with him at the time, but I didn’t want to risk our friendship (I was new in town and he was literally my only friend) plus I didn’t want to overstep that weird situation we were in. One day when we were hanging out he was really nervous and he just said that he couldn’t keep it a secret anymore and that he was crazy in love with me :). So I guess we’re unique, we never even dated, and we knew right away we were “the one.”

Post # 10
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5207 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

@FutureMrs.Lord:  during “the act” haha. i don’t remember how long we’d been dating. A few weeks maybe? 

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I said it first, he didn’t say it so i took it back. haha. we found each other at a rather messy time in his life so the timing was pretty bad. I knew i loved him and it was killing me not to say it so i just blurted it out. he said nothing. AWKWARD haha. i just rolled over and tried to go to sleep. next morning i left still upset and text him and said forget what i said last night. we talked about it the next night and he said he’s not ready yet even tho he might feel it, i kept saying it to him over the next couple of days and eventually he said it back! sucha  fairytale romance hahaha

Post # 15
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2766 posts
Sugar bee

We met and started seeing each other in October and made it official in December. Two weeks later, we were on the phone and he’d been drinking while out with a friend. Just as we were saying our goodbyes, he said “Goodbye, I love you.” then hung up.

I froze and stared at my phone like a deer in headlights, then texted, “Been drinking a little?”

He responded, “Yes, but I still meant what I said.”

Immediately, I called back and told him it made me so happy to hear he felt that way but I wasn’t sure and didn’t want to say it until I knew. He was so understanding and only said it maybe one more time until I finally realized I was being silly and definitely felt the same way two more weeks after that.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

It was about 2 months into our relationship. I knew I felt it less than a month in, and FI felt it, but he couldn’t wrap his mind around it that early on. That day we were at my friend’s house for lunch. He “borrowed” me from my friend (I was helping her in the kitchen) and drove me to the cemetery. Turns out, we were close to where his mom is buried, and he really wanted to take me to see her.

That night while we were in bed, completely dark, (we spent the night at my friend’s), I told him I loved him. I’m sure it wasn’t long after, but the silence seemed to be forever, he said it back. We just fell asleep in each other’s arms. I don’t know about him, but I had a big smile on my face.

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