- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
Last night, my BF and I had a big big talk. He’d been away for 10 days and had said that when he got back, we were going to talk about our future. We had a brilliant talk about a bunch of the things that need to be considered before we get engaged, such as the fact that i’m Australian and would need to figure out moving to the US with visas, family etc, career ideas for each of us, style of living, ideal wedding, and probably most importantly what a marriage actually means to us (to make sure we were on the same page) – he was pretty recently divorced when we met and so he’s understandably not wanting to make a mistake.
I’m so excited that we talked about this stuff – its nice to officially know that i’m waiting for him to propose and that it will come when he’s ready – but at the same time, i’m wishing he’d ask me already. We both knew very early on that we want to be married (we’ve only been dating for 6 months come the end of July) and i don’t want any of you to think i’m rushing in order to have a wedding and party etc (we’re actually thinking of a small, courthouse-style wedding for the 2 of us), i am just eager to start my life as his wife. Did anyone else feel like this after your big talk?
I dunno, i guess i’m just getting my thoughts out. My best friend is still asleep (time zone differences) and i know you bees are good at listening, so thanks for humoring me! 😀