(Closed) The Groomsmen Invites that the Groom Refuses to Let Me Send!

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: Do you think that I should send them anyway?
    Yes, you worked too hard! : (2 votes)
    2 %
    No, that would not be the best way to enter into marriage! : (116 votes)
    98 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1577 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    They’re super-cute…  but not exactly “manly”, in my opinion.  I think it’s his responsibility to ask his groomsmen, he might want to do it face to face over a beverage.

    Post # 4
    Member
    46151 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Although you did a fabulous job, many guys would roll over in their grave before they lent their name to something like this. Part of marriage is learning to draw the lines between his responsibillity and yours. Do not cross that line.

    Post # 4
    Member
    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    When I showed them to my DH he laughed. He said he would be picked on forever if he had given those out. He then went on to say, guys just tell their friends in a bar, they don’t give them cutesy figurines.

    Post # 5
    Member
    2077 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    These are really cute!  But, like @Ivorybuttons said, not really “manly” at all.  I can tell you spent a lot of time making these, but if your FI says not to send them, I wouldn’t send them.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1046 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Yah this kind of ‘reeks’ of womanism.  No guy I know would ever do this =/  

    Post # 7
    Member
    1925 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    They are really nice and cute, but i agree with others, not very manly.  My FI would flat out say no if I asked to send these to his groomsmen.  

    Post # 8
    Member
    2362 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2017

    Guys don’t do that kind of stuff. Do not send them out!

    Post # 10
    Member
    1046 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @mshontasmith:  I love that I’m not the only person with a wedding room xD

    Post # 11
    Hostess
    16217 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    Bless your heart for making those. They look GREAT! Ultimately, though, it’s up to your FI. Definitely feel free to shower your BMs with all of that cuteness and craftiness of yours! 🙂

    Post # 12
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    1211 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    They are ADORABLE and it was so sweet of you to make them. This is totally something I would do… however…I know my SO would be so embarassed. If he’s uncomfortable, don’t force it on him. He’s not trying to be a jerk, he just doesn’t want his balls busted for the rest of time 🙂 

    Post # 13
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    46151 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    If owls are going to be part of your theme, you will find a use for them at the wedding. If not. attach one to every birthday gift you give him for the rest of his life. It will become a standing joke instead of a bone of contention.

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