Post # 1
Seriously! There are so many bees I would love to just follow on here but I have to look them up (and remember names and spellings… which I am terrible at!) in order to see what they have been up to lately! Anybody agree?
Post # 3
Post # 5
i don’t think i agree. i think then people would feel excluded. like that thread where people were naming who they would want to be friends with – no harm done in there, but as some pointed out, there was potential for it.
i like to think of weddingbee as one big facebook and you are ALL on my friend list! plus the people i would maybe “follow” are the ones that post most often, thats how i get to know them. so sometimes when i see them, i click on their profile and scroll through their recent posts to see what they have been up to!
Post # 6
I think it would be great to be able to follow certain Bees, but I wouldn’t want it to be exclusive like having friends would be
Post # 7
@Koala Bear: I agree and I think they should not make it public who someone follows.
Post # 8
@MaiFuture: ya i like that kind of idea more. like we could follow for our own interest, but it wouldn’t be like we have a “friend” list or anything
Post # 9
@dynamic_duo:Well, not everybody has to see who you are following or are friends with. It can be a private thing just for the user. I know it would atleast make my life easier even if it were private! I can see how it could cause jealousy though or people adding people just to up their friend list.
Post # 10
Yeah, I dunno… I definitely wouldn’t want it to be visibly public.
If there’s somebody I want to follow up with they usually have enough posts that they show up in a recent thread every day, or I have a PM in my inbox that I can click through to get to their posts.
Post # 11
I would rather have some sort of system where you could be notified when someone replies to you on a post.
Post # 12
@FutureMrsMcDermott: I’d rather have both! But if a choice is required, I go with the reply notification.
But following certain people would be nice, like date twins or people that are doing a theme similar to mine or that I relate to.
Post # 13
@FutureMrsMcDermott: Agreed. Sometimes I don’t come back to a thread for a long time, or ever, because I’ve gone on to others and it disappears down my list!
Post # 14
I would like there to be a like button sometimes too there are times I like some peoples posts but don’t want to thave to remark all the time to say so. An update would be great. I forget sometimes what I’ve posted to.
I do agree with both posts about doing this or not. It would be sorta nice but yes I can see issues with it too.
Post # 15
@FutureMrsMcDermott: I agree on needing that too. It would get annoying when we are doing chats but otherwise, I would like to know! I am sure people have asked me questions or replied to posts and I still don’t know about it.
Post # 16
Is this sort of what you guys want?
I also think that other bees shouldn’t know who you friend. I think only you will know who you friend, so feelings don’t get hurt and such.