The "I can't please everyone and I just don't care" Thread

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Exactly! The day belongs to you and him, it’s what you two want that matters 🙂

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s not that you don’t care- it’s just that this is your wedding, not theirs. They had or will have their chance and all weddings don’t need to come from the same cookie cutter.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

Good for you! My grandma didn’t like my dress AT ALL when I took her shopping. Don’t care (and I don’t understand, because I think my dress is awesome!). 

As long as your wedding is what you wanted it to be in the end, everyone will love everything because they love you. And if they don’t, well, that doesn’t really matter, anyway.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

my I dont care moment was when i choose bridesmaid dresses! I had been trying to please everyone for 6 months, and finally i was down to the last 2 weeks to order to make sure they would be in for the wedding, and just choose! i made one mad outta 4 so i guess i choose good!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@linnylou_88:  I love mismatched BMs! I think mushroom and light pink witll be absolutely gorgeous!! I’m trying to convince my BMs to do mismatched too and I’m getting the same reaction.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

*We* sure as hell don’t care. We care about our guests having good food and drinks and being comfortable…but their opinion on theme or formality is neither here nor there, since it’s not their wedding.

We’ve already heard “tacky” about my dress, BBQ, a backyard reception and plastic plates that we’ve just embraced the term affectionately at this point.

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