- 5 years ago
- Wedding: February 2013
I know I’m not alone here so just hoping for some advise on how to deal with this.
My Future Mother-In-Law and Father-In-Law are absolutely disrespectful to me and always has been. From keeping photos of my FI’s ex gf in multiple locations in the home and not taking them down after my Fiance has asked them to do time and time again (it’s been 4 years since the drama about asking them to do that), they bring up another ex gf of Fiance EVERY time we see them (which is not often), they say things like my Fiance doesn’t want to get married but in a joking mannor, they ignore my emails when I ask them say for old pics when can display at the wedding or questions about the guys attire, they bought me soup for xmas after we were dating over and year when everyone else got giftcards for hundreds of dollars, Mother-In-Law denied received an Ecard invite to my bridal shower when you can see on the hosts account that she did in fact see the email and opened the ECard she just decided to ignore it, I mean the list goes on and I just really don’t feel welcome in thier home.
My Fiance is finally starting to see how this affects me and agrees it needs to stop but he has trouble approaching his parents because they make the situation worse and just make excuses for thier behaviour. Should I just tell them off myself or continue to expect my Fiance to take care of it. Wedding is only a few months away!