The M___________ on RSVP Cards!!!!

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Usually you leave the line blank so the people can fill in guests names.  I think they will know how many to invite by the __ of 4 guests.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I had the guest write their name, but you could do it yourself. I kinda wish I would have because I’m having a hard time reading names!!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

The M_________ is there so guests can write the names of the people attending the wedding. ie Mrs. Jane Smith So it does make sense for you to write their names on the invite. What is only 1 person of 2 can attend etc?

Instead of the M__________ you can write “Names”

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

My RSVPs have the M______.  Most guests have used it to start Mr or Mrs, etc., but my adorable sister used it as the first letter of her name (Megan).  😛

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

As Jaylii9 pointed out, you won’t know which of the invitees can make it if you fill out the line.

If you want to really specify who is coming, you could try something like:

Please respond on or before May 13, 2028

[invitee #1] ___ happily accepts  ___ regretfully declines

[invitee #2] ___ happily accepts  ___ regretfully declines

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010 - Al Cielo / La Laguna

Our were also nontraditional and we filled in the names ourselves before mailing them. It made things a lot easier in the end.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

ok no joke. every rsvp i have had with people whos name starts with an M has used the M to begin their first name. oy.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I prefer to leave it blank for two reasons.

1) It takes too long to hand-write in the names.

2) Like you said yourself you may not know who is coming. For example, I inivted my friend and her family (3 kids) to our wedding. She called and asked if it was okay to leave the husband at home with the kids and she bring her sister as her date. I of course didn’t mind.  So when she turned in her RSVP card she wrote in her name and her sisters.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

@ FutureMrs.Taylor – It sounds like you’re actually concerned about making sure people you don’t want to invite don’t end up inviting themselves because of the wait the RSVP card is set up.  For example, Cousin Jane wants to bring her boyfriend even though you’re just inviting her, not her plus guest.  Is that the case?

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m so glad you posted this…..I’ve been wondering the same thing. I’m not having inner envelopes either so I was wondering how to specify exactly who is invited because I keep hearing that person A is bring their date even though person A’s date is not invited, etc. I am wondering if I should do it on the addressed part of the envelope or on the RSVP itself. I also heard that some people forget to fill out the M____________ part and then you play the guessing game determining who the RSVP is from.

 

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Don’t forget to number them on the back if you leave the M___ blank.  That’s what I did and I got one guest who remaines a mystery to this day.  Not put their name on it and just check off, Will not attend.  WTF?

This maybe more work but what about something like this…

Please circle how many will attend.

1  2   3   4

 

Might make it a little more straight forward.  Although, there will be some that might put 5 or 6.  You know… those people…. lol

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