The Moissy Thread Pattern

posted 4 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
1524 posts
Bumble bee

@NJatTheDisco:  honestly I noticed that today idk why e something hasnt been done but its truly annoying

Post # 5
4654 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I started a thread once about being snarky about moissys and said it should be against the tos to rag on girls for them. That thread was shut down. I think the best thing to do is not respond to the people who are starting trouble and not get sucked into the arguments about them. 

Post # 6
547 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I think there are definitely certain Bees who consistently post on the moissy threads with negative opinions (often with backhanded compliments, like “it’s so pretty, for a sim!” — rather than just saying that it’s pretty!), and I think it should be against the TOS. They’re being condescending and insulting towards others’ choices, and I think the mods should ask them to stay away from the moissy threads. Aint nobody got time for that! 🙂

Post # 7
5408 posts
Bee Keeper

Yeah it’s obnoxious. And I don’t understand why the mods allow it to happen over and over and over. Even if a member has hundreds of posts, she could still be considered a troll, or engaging in baiting. I just flag her posts and ignore her now. 

Post # 8
800 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

They all seem to come from one particular bee and the only thing that happens is other people get moderated for calling her out…

Post # 10
724 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

v.      Please refrain from baiting.  Baiting is the act of encouraging responses or replies in order to cause dissent or discord; to instigate participation in a negative way.  Anytime you call attention to drama you’re amplifying it and actively participating in it, which is a violation of these policies.  This includes “last wording” or refusing to let an argument go.  For more information about name-calling and baiting, please see this thread.



Post # 11
457 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

[comment moderated for baiting]

Post # 12
619 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

[Comment Moderated for Name Calling]

Post # 15
2810 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

i caused one thread to get shut doen, purely because i stated an opinion on moissanite (and a link to moissaniteco’s “history of moissanite” page), and one of the anti-moissanite bees countered everything i said and got pissy. and yeah. i feel bad for the OP of that thread.

i don’t know why people can’t get along. it doesn’t make sense.

so what? you don’t like something that other people like. keep it to yourself.

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