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I'd have to say the most important thing at my wedding has to be the details. Like, the flowers on the chairs...the bouquet's, etc. That's what makes it in my opinion!
& ofcourse...saying my I Do's to my FI!
What's the most important thing to you?
The photography to remember it! And my husband lol.
Yes photography is def. SO important! That was one of the first vendors I booked! & having fun is for sure a must. I just know I'm going to be SO nervous in front of all those people! I was one of those girls in HS who COULD NOT get in front of ppl in the class! At all!!
Our guests! They're the whole reason for the big shindig, we could have just gone to the courthouse :)
Guests for sure - we were considering a small DW, and decided to do a traditional wedding so that we could celebrate with our loved ones.
Yeah, I guess the guests have something to do with it! Lol, jk :)
I read somewhere once that they had the advice given to them to just sit back and take everything in, don't let it be like a night out on the town where you're just "in the moment", let it be something you'll remember. I am def. going to try & do that the most!
Mine was "meaning". I loved that everything at our wedding had some meaning or story behind it.
Honestly, the most important thing to me is that my fiance and I remain true to who we are and guests walk away feeling that they've experienced just a bit more of who that is.
I'm fortunate in that I have a man who embraces the fact that I want to recognize that a wedding isn't about a structured day and being who you feel you should be. I want guests to really feel like they got a glimpse into our relationship and that they were given the opportunity b/c we appreciate them being in our lives.
We slashed our guestlist by about 50% and kept the budget the same. Details are important but we truly want to experience the best night of our lives.
@farfromordinarybride: That's amazing! I'm glad you & your hunny thought of that. I'm sure your guests will definitely see the true you!
I really want our guests to leave thinking, "They are so in love!" I just really want our joy to speak through the whole day. While you can do that to a degree with the details, I think the biggest way you can do it is through a meaningful and heartfelt ceremony, so that's my biggest thing!
I want our guests to know how much we love each other and them. But also celebration and fun!
that our wedding represented us...my friend said the wedding was "so Keisha" and it was!
honestly the fact that i get to marry the man of my dreams and we get to become a family.. everything else pales in comparison (although 2nd is definitely a photographer... shhhh.... don't tell M because he's cheap :D)
it sounds hokey and cheesey and all, but honestly, the most important thing is simply love.
-our love for one another
-our love for our families/their love for us first as individuals and then as a couple
-our love for our friends/their love for us
-the love that went into our DIY projects
-our love for some old traditions that we're adhering to as well as our love for new traditions that we are beginning on our wedding day.
-and our love of good food and good times shared with the people that we care most about in this life.
Materialistically - photography. But we're both creative & art/photography lovers, so it still fits in with my love thing... :)
all you need is love, right?
the ceremony! I really care about the actual marriage part of the wedding. I've actually had kind of a hard time getting excited about planning a reception.
The most important thing at my wedding is...my fiance. :) Or would that be, at some point, my husband? :D
Otherwise, the most important thing is fun. I want to have fun. I want my FI to have fun. I want my guests to have fun. And I want fun that is relaxing and leaves people talking about what a wonderful time they had at our wedding.
Mine was the emotion. Although, pre-wedding, I probably wouldn't have said that because I had NO idea it would be so amazing and deep. Beforehand, I probably would've said the pictures.
My father passed in 03 and my step father passed in 04...my Brother is in the Marines and is getting home just in time from his 2nd tour in Afghan. to give me away! He'll be wearing his Dress Blues...I'm going to be a basket case. I cry just thinking about it!
And of course Mr. Walker :)
i want our guests to leave and say "that was so much fun!" the receprion is our first party as a married couple and i want people to enjoy themselves, just like at any party at our house!
I mean, obviously the most important thing to me and everyone else is saying "I do" to my man, but aside from that, it's gonna be the dress. I have had a major fashion history/fashion design fascination since I was pretty young and to be able to splurge on a dress with such incredible detail and luxe fabrics, something so fantastical...that is going to be a dream come true for me. Honestly, I could get married in a courthouse as long as I had a beautiful dress and a few pictures to prove I wore a beautiful dress. ;)
Can I pick more than one?
1. Location, location, location! But I had a destination wedding :) And the destination had special meaning for us. And when you plan a destination wedding, you often have to let go of some of the details.
2. In hindsight, photographer. I was disappointed in my pro photos and wish I had been smarter about this one.
3. That it be fun! For me, for my husband, for my guests.
The overall vibe.
I want my guests to feel welcome, cared for, and fetted. I want this day to be in part an expression of my appreciation of them.
having the celebration that best represented US. only adopting traditions that were meaningful, having bands and lots of good music and food, and making a memorable event for our guests.
that moment when it will dawn on me that I'm Mrs. Rockhold. I cry everytime I think of it. I woud've married him two years ago but we want our family to witness it. I just want to marry the guy!
Aw @esrockhold: That is so sweet! I can't wait to be Mrs. Lee, I love my soon to be last name! It's so easy :) Congrats to all you ladies!! :)
The most important thing other than our vows is that my guests really feel catered to. I am a hostess at heart and I want my wedding to fun, comfortable and hassle-free for everyone. I want them to eat a ton and drink too much! For this purpose, I have the Chapel, Reception site, and hotel all within a two block radius! No transportation needed!
finally becoming Mrs. Limbo. We've literally been thru hell and back and when it finally happens it will be the happinest day of my life (until we have baby Limbos)
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