- 3 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
It has been one of those long weeks for me, as DH seems to come home happy and he gets upset at something miniscule, or gets mad from a miscommunication.
Last night, I was explaining that men are more visual creatures and that it waa easier for most guys to see a sexy woman and visualize sex with them, whereas women typically tend to not think about that when we see a hot man. We are more emotionally stimulated than men, TYPICALLY. He agreed that most ladies are like that. I told him that if him and I are watching a movie and there is a sex scene and he gets excited, I do, too! While this was seemingly normal coversation, out of nowhere he told me that if he were someone else and if it were not a dumb comment, he would be HIGHLY offended by me saying “I can see it in his face” if he wants to get in another woman’s pants. I never said anything of the sort AT ALL because he’s not that kind of guy who gawks at women. I do not care if he looks, but he’s respectful so that would never cross my mind to even say such a stupid thing! Well DH was pretty aggressive and clearly annoyed. I tried explaining myself better and he just did not want to hear it. I still feel upset because of it, and I wish he would have let me clear things up instead of him getting mad for no reason. So I went to bed upset. It just ruins my night and a portion of my morning.
This is what we have dealt with a few days of the week for the past week. Something I say gets misunderstood, or he gets angry over the silliest stuff and it puts me in an upset. I’m tired of always apologizing, but nothing is that serious to be upset about for any length of time. I feel like I just need to shut up the entire time while he’s home in order for us to not fight about something stupid lol! How can I help us get out of this silly situation of these constant tiffs?
P.S., no, this is not usual for us. Our relationship is wonderful otherwise.