Post # 1
My Fiance has a lazy eye. People mention it constantly. How do I not get offended by this?
Someone asked me today: “are you paying your photographer extra to photoshop-fix his eye?”
I am so beyond peeved right now. What would you say to this?
Post # 3
Seriously?! I can’t believe someone said that to you. I would say “Absolutely not, our wedding pictures will show both of us just as we are, because we love each other just as we are”. That oughta make ’em feel like the jerks they are.
Post # 4
“yes, we’re also going to get him to erase any insensitive people”
Post # 5
Omg I can’t believe people would actually say something to you like that!! Seriously, what is wrong with people?!
Post # 6
That is so unbelievably rude of them! I would ask them why they would think you would want a picture that doesn’t look like your FI!
Post # 7
@julies1949: Love this!
Seriously, I cannot believe anyone would say that. I don’t even think that kind of question deserves an answer. I would just look them right in the eyes and say very calmly, “I really cannot believe you just asked me that,” and then walk away.
Post # 8
My uncle has a really bad lazy eye, and he has learned over the years to just joke about it. I can’t believe people would actually say something like that
Post # 9
I’d incredulously reply, “Are you serious?” and then walk away without giving them a chance to answer.
Post # 9
Oh my god!! That is beyond rude… I don’t even know how I would react to that! I would probably say something terrible like “no, we’re saving money there to fix YOUR _____insert something wrong with person here___”. and then I’d feel terrible… like that person should be.
Post # 10
I have a lazy eye and wear glasses. When I don’t wear my glasses ppl always do that to me, it’s really annoying. I haven’t gotten that comment yet but if I do, oh boy, I think I’ll tell them where to go and how to get there lol.
Post # 11
I literally just snorted in indignation reading this. I have wine running down my face. Lovely…
Anyway, what?!?! Not only would I stab them in the eye with the fork, I’d tell them that the camera would be shortly stuck somewhere in them altogether more uncomfortable. How rude!
Post # 12
@Moose1209: awww that’s super ooshy gooshy lovey. I like it.
@eeniebeans: that’s exactly how I feel too.
@Neva: I didn’t answer I just kind of stood there with my mouth open. Honestly it hurt at first and then the anger came.
Post # 12
I’m sorry for insensitve people. I bet they didn’t mean to be as insensitive as it sounded.
Just wondering, but my cousin was born with a lazy eye and it got fixed. (I forget how, surgery?)
Post # 13
@Mrs.ChubbyBunny: What a jerk! How insensitive and rude!
I’d come up with some super snarky comeback and probably piss off a bunch of people.
(My Fiance has teeth that are pretty messed up. Little kids ask him if he’s a vampire. He can’t help it and I know it hurts him still when people ask about it. It’s so frustrating that people can’t keep their mouths shut!)
Post # 14
@julies1949: I would change “insensitive people” to a choice expletive, but this is perfect.