Post # 1
Where are you staying the night before the wedding? I dont want to see my man that day at all until I’m walking down the aisle. So I’m going to be staying in a hotel. We currently live together but our wedding is not in our town. It’s actually in the town I grew up in and where my parents currently live. My Mom is a bit of a hoarder (srsly. I swear she has a mild form of what people on that TV show have!) and her house is always a complete disaster so I dont want to spend the night there and get ready there since the photog will probably be coming over. And, my mom is kind of an evil woman and I dont want to spend it with her, knowing she’ll bitch at me and put me in a bad mood (seriously. this woman is one of a kind).
But then Im left with the decision, do I sleep alone in my hotel room? Or do my girls come with me? They all have houses in that town they can stay in whether it be their own or their parents’ so it’s not like they will be in desparate need of a place to stay, you know?
Post # 3
I would see if any of the girls want to host you if you’re kicked out of your house. I had my husband sleep at the hotel, and I had a sleepover at my house with the girls that was a lot of fun. We just hung out, and played a board game, and painted our nails and stuff.
Post # 4
I think it would be fun. I would just call up your bridesmaids, and be like “Hey, I’m staying at a hotel overnight, instead of staying with Fi for the night, because I don’t want him to see me the next day at all, and I was wonderinf if you would like to join me?” and plan some fun things to do.
Post # 5
I kind of ran the idea by them already (well 2 of 5 of them) and the one said that none of us would get any sleep that night if we all stayed together & the other was all for it lol.
Post # 6
I was a Bridesmaid or Best Man for a friend who stayed in a chalet the night before (and got married from there); another Bridesmaid or Best Man and I, as the only single girls still staying with our parents at the time, stayed over with her and it was great. We could help her with all the last-minute stuff, keep her from stressing, and force her to go to bed while we cleaned things up. The other BMs had husbands and families to be with, and the bride didn’t want to take them away from their homes overnight – but if any of your BMs are single girls living with their parents, I think they’d welcome the night away, and you’ll have fun too!
Post # 7
My Fiance and I live together too! And we’re not going to be seeing each other after the rd until walking down the aisle! So I’m staying at my uncles with a bunch of my girls, bm’s and just friends! I think it will be so fun, and then we can all get ready together the next day! All of the girls live within 20 minutes of my uncles house so it’s not like they don’t have option of staying at their own houses, it’s like the last hoorah sleep over, like the ones in 5th grade, before i’m a married lady!
Post # 8
I had my Maid/Matron of Honor stay with me at the hotel. It was just the 2 of us and we had a good time!
Post # 9
I’m staying at mom and dad’s but all the girls are coming for a sleepover!
Post # 10
I had my girls with me at our hotel, which is also close enough to home that they could have stayed home or with parents. I wanted some distractions to keep me from getting nervous, and I’m glad they were there!
Post # 11
All my girls and I are staying in 2 hotel rooms (there’s 5 bridesmaids, 2 personal attendants, possibly my cousin, and myself.. so we won’t really fit in one room haha). But I can’t wait!! My dad isn’t such a fan of the idea, but I think it’s one last night with my girls before I’m a married woman!!