Post # 1
this is totally insane bees but i had to share with someone!
ok about a month ago i started having bad dreams. only one in particular really. the dream starts off with it being right before the wedding and then…my teeth fall out! once it was right before the ceremony and a tiny crack broke out all the way accross the top of my top teeth and then they just fell off…then last night it was just a little bit of time before the wedding and i felt a chip in my mouth so i touched it with my tongue and my mouth started bleeding and my teeth were falling out in chips and i was spitting them into my hand and looked into the mirror to see that i was only missing my 4 front teeth! but the crazy part is that in that one i was somehow able to think “this is only a dream. this isnt really hapening”
im totally insane right? has anyone else ever had any kind of weird dreams as i got closer to the big day?
Post # 3
When I was planning our wedding I had nightmares all the time, it’s just stress and worrying about something going wrong, they go away and your wedding will be perfect! 🙂
Post # 4
@Jerseygirl23: its just scary and freaky because i have beautiful teeth (partially in thanks to braces) and get told all the time that i have a beautiful smile but it some of these dreams it feels so real!
Post # 5
@cllyons: Nightmares about teeth falling out are supposed to signify stress in your life, so that might explain them? It doesnt make them less distressing though. I hope they ease up and you can start having a decent nights sleep
Post # 6
I know the feeling, I think I had that dream once or twice too.. Try not to stress too much about them, you don’t want them getting worse! 🙂 Try not to eat too late or do anything wedding related a few hours before bed, maybe that will help.
Post # 7
@Skiba that is good to know. im not actually stressed about anything wedding in particular because i have everything planned/done. BUT i am stressing baout work as they have cut my hours drastically at work which means less wedding money =( thanks for the info!
@Jerseygirl23 oh boy thatll be hard! right before bed is when i do my best wedding hunting
Post # 8
pretty early on in the planning process I had several dreams of Fiance calling off the wedding! I also had a dream that it was his sisters wedding day and since all the family was there already they decided we should just get married that day as well – i was beyond mad because nothing was of my choosing and i was being thrown in to someone elses wedding because it was convenient for the family. haha his sister was married in august and i had the dream after the wedding – it was just weird. Funny what stress does to you.
I havent had dreams in quite a while and im about 4 weeks out – i would take crazy dreams over the non-sleeping spell that i’ve been having.
Post # 9
I just had a nightmare about being at our reception dinner before the ceremony, and my fiance wasn’t there. Obviously he’s not allowed to see me before the ceremony. Everyone was almost done eating and it hit me, where the heck is my Fiance? Oh, he’s not allowed to see me… who the hell planned the dinner reception for BEFORE the ceremony.
I started packing up a plate of food for him because I knew he’d be hungry when I realized I wasn’t in my dress, hadn’t written my vows OR hired anyone to actually marry us. there was only a couple hours till the actually ceremony. Nightmare! I even wished it were a dream, in my dream!
I am stressing about vows & finding someone to marry us though, maybe it’s a sign to get on it.
Post # 10
OMG, I keep having break up dreams! THEY’RE HORRIBLE! The one thing that I absolutely adore and cherish the most about my relationship, the anchor when things get tough is our honesty and loyalty to each other. In nearly 5 years together we have never, ever lied, withheld information or tried to deceive the other. I know this isn’t rare to most people, but it’s a big deal to me.
Anyway, I keep having dreams he’s cheating on me! I end up packing up and taking my ring off and giving it to him. Sometimes I just say “oh, not cool” and leave feeling like “eh, figures this would happen to me” and sometimes in the dream I get pissed and scream and cry.
@twist In the beginning when I thought of having Bridesmaids and all that I had a similar dream. I had a dream that we were at like a Chuck-E-Cheese / hall type place (so weird) and I was on a stage thinkg “we’re next!” it’s fuzzy now but I remember thinking shit none of the guests got invited, I didn’t have a dress, I didn’t have bridesmaids dresses…AHH
Post # 11
wow glad to know i wasnt the only one having bad dreams, mine are always that there isnt enough time, i cant get my hair done, forgot my curling iron, there is no food no flowers or the flowers are all wrong and even an ex trying to put a stop to the wedding, INSANITY – i was told its just pre-wedding stress and anxiety! you will be ok pretty!
Post # 12
My wedding nightmares have mostly been that the whole wedding happens but I can’t remember any of it and there are no pictures or video…. or there are pictures but I look horrible and all the details of the wedding are nothing that I wanted or liked.
Post # 13
@cosmocity: freaky hey?
My fiance has dreams about me cheating, then wakes up and forgets that it’s a dream and is actually mad at me in the morning. He usually realizes after a few minutes, but he has gotten really mad and not talked to me for a good 5 minutes!! haha.
Post # 14
I JUST had my first wedding nightmare last night. I dreamt that it was our wedding day and I slept way too late and got up rushed to realize that I’d forgotten to make appointments for my hair and makeup. I did it by myself (no one was with me at all…no mom/bridesmaids) and then my hair wasn’t cooperating. Then I went to the ceremony site right before it was supposed to start and nothing looked right and I had forgotten to pick songs for the DJ so there was no music and the officiant was the wrong person!!
It was horrible and I felt really silly lol.
Post # 15
@totheislnds– that is too funny. well we are a little under 4 months out so maybe theyll stop once it gets closer
@.twist.– it is probably your conscience telling you to start planning those things =P
@cosmocity– i forgot about one i had about kind of cheating. just one. so in the dream it was me Fh and some random girl and he went up to her and asked her out or something like that and the girl said ” arent you getting married soon?” and FH said “ya, so?” and then walked away from her and i went up to him and said “did you seriously just ask her out?!” and he just mumbled and shrugged his shoulders!..it was pretty funny thinking back on it. and then i have ones where well be at a party or something and he’ll completely ignore me and act like he wants nothing to do with me.
@ everyone..at least they’re only dreams and we can laugh at them after the fact!
Post # 16
Hahaha! You will be ok. I had nightmares for many months before my wedding, I think it’s normal! Try to relax- do some yoga, deep breathing, and take solace in your bridesmaids and family, they are there to help!