- 7 years ago
Hi waiting bees,
first of all I would like to say just how lovely the ladies on this board are, very supportive even at times where it can get quite difficult.
Bf and I have been dating approx 3 years and 5 months, he has been quite open about rings since the 2 year mark and we have often stopped in front of a shop window “just to look” .He knows the style that I love and is also aware I have recently joined the hive.
He is pretty good at talking about marriage and the last time we had a serious discussion (over 1 year ago) we decided that we both weren’t ready and finances were an issue.since then he has got a great new job, with an imminent promotion. we now live together and have a pretty good relationship.
One of my friends got engaged quite quickly and is now married and experiencing some problems which frightened me for a while, but recently I have become much more aware of how much I would actually like to marry this guy.
Without being mushy he is my best friend and I could not imagine my life without him. I know that he will get a large bonus from work in february and he has joked that ” a shiny thing could be bought” he is also invited to my cousins wedding next year so that may have had an effect. I’m just not sure how I feel about waiting another 9 months if this feeling is going to intensify( I can see myself becoming addicted to wb)
Anyway think I have said enough for now, im looking foward to being active in the hive !