(Closed) The old bachelor party debate – on morning radio!

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I know someone whose (now ex) husband had sex with a prostitute at his bachelor party.  She found out after they were divorced.

I don’t think that every party is like this.  I think a lot of them involve strippers and maybe lap dances, but I don’t think it always (or even usually) goes beyond that. 

I think the callers were skewed.  Think about it- if you were a guy listening to this show- would you call in to say you think this is repulsive and you have never been to a party like this?  That would just be setting yourself up to be ridiculed by the host.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

If that stuff went down at a bachelorette party, chances are pretty good things’d be called off immediately.  Some guys will say “Well, they don’t have that sort of thing for women!”  They do, but you don’t hear about them because most women have too much respect for themselves and their SOs not to participate.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

This is totally the extreme. Does this happen, sure! Some people are cheaters some arn’t. 

But in reality majority of parties are just the same old lap dance and “stage beating” parties.  

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Keep in mind that callers are screened before they go on the air, so I’m sure they were only putting on callers that backed up this topic so it would continue.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

I know my FI would never do cocaine, nevermind sleep with some random girl he could get a disease from. He cares too much about his health for that lol.

All joking aside, I seriously doubt that is actually the standard of what goes on at bachelor parties. I agree with PP, those calls were screened and they probably only accepted callers that would go along with it. I wouldn’t stress it too much, just discuss with your FI what the boundaries are and if you trust him, you’ll know that he will hold true to that. 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

It was also anonymous, it is amazing how many guys think behavior like that is worthy of bragging about. My bet is that more than half were lying, and mostly like still in high school.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

@ScarletBegonia: lol that’s definitely a lie. I bet he couldn’t even have sex 3 times in an hour. 😛

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