The post I never wanted to write

posted 3 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
1448 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I don’t have much to say other then if im reading right… you had an ultrasound at your doctor before the rupture occurred? They should have caught it being ectopic. I’d have some hard questions for them and maybe consult a lawyer. I certainly would find a new doctor to. Best wishes that you go on to have a healthy little one soon. 


Post # 4
1835 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Mrs_Em:  It’s really brave of you to put your story out there in hopes of helping a stranger.

Post # 5
6655 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

@Mrs_Em:  Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry for your loss.


Post # 6
11469 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

@Mrs_Em:  I am so incredibly sorry for your loss and the pain you had to endure, emotionally and physically. Thank goodness you are alive and well now! I know that it will take time to heal and be ready to move and I pray that you will find peace with what has happened.

Can I ask how did the doctor not see the ectopic pregnancy at your appointment at 9 weeks? Did they explain this possibility to you?

Post # 7
1349 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’m so sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing your story!

Post # 8
1170 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2002

@lovemygsp:  I agree….someone must’ve let this slip by them.  They should have seen the baby in the tube.  I’m so so sorry, OP.  Losing a baby is a horrific experience!  My heart goes out to you and prayers!  

Post # 9
737 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Mrs_Em:  I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. 🙁

Post # 10
4147 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m so sorry to hear your story, my heart is aching for you.

It’s been 6 months since I had a MC, and my heart is still heavy.  Please take your time healing.

Post # 11
4440 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013



im wondering the same thing !


so sorry OP that is so scary to hear. 🙁 was it possibly a twin ? what was your pain like if you don’t mind me asking (i have sharp random pains  to the right of my bellybutton  up a bit  but  when I press down it feels watery or gassy I guess. 

Post # 14
11469 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

@Mrs_Em:  I am again very sorry.

In looking online it seems that extra-uterine pregnancies at 9 weeks are typically located on the u/s to the side versus the middle of the uterus. I wonder if this was true of your u/s image? Again, if you don’t want to discuss that is fine and totally understandable.


Post # 15
446 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I am so, so sorry for your loss. How devastating. Thank you for sharing your story, and I hope you continue to heal. For those of us who are newly pregnant, if you can, would you mind sharing how you knew something wasn’t right? Sometimes I get little cramps on one side or the other, but nothing I’d call severe or even moderate. It’s so hard not to worry.

Post # 16
213 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Mrs_Em:  Thanks for sharing your story – it took a lot of courage.  Thinking of you…

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