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bridesmaid backed out on me. :(

The show must go on.

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
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    northernazbride    August 1, 2009   Arizona

    Well, I'm feeling bummed out tonight. We're getting married on saturday and I just found out that my aunt, uncle and cousin will not make it. My aunt has had some sort of mysterious illness for some time now and today she was admitted to the hospital. She has a history of cancer and we're all scared. My uncle was to walk me down the aisle (my dad passed away several years ago) and my cousin who is like a sister to me, is my moh. Our wedding is very small, only 35 people and most of our guests are my fh's friends and his large dysfunctional family. My family is small but we are extremely close and I am pretty devastated that they will not be there and I am so worried about my aunt. Can I have some hive hugs?

     
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    KateMW    8.30.03   Birmingham

    I'm so sorry! That sucks!! I hope your aunt will be feeling better soon and I know this is hard on you. {{{}}}

     
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    emg    October 3, 2009   TX

    I'm so sorry! I hope everything works out with your aunt. Sending lots of hugs your way!! 

     
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    I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how much you are hurting. My prayers are with you and your Aunt. I hope she is well soon. Do you think that they may be able to come, it's only Monday...she could be well enough by the end of the week. Hive hugs to you!!

     
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    fontgoddess    August 8, 2009   British Columbia, Canada

    (((((hugs)))))

    My prayers are with all of you.

     
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    Soon2BeMrsC    March 20, 2010   Wine Country

    ((Hive hugs!))  Warm wishes to your aunt and to you on your wedding day.  I hope everything turns out for the best.

     
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    OHHHHH, I'm SOOOO sorry! i can see how that would be pretty devastating, is there any chance at all they could make it, should your aunt start to feel better, even for the ceremony? gosh, that's horrible, (((HUGS)))....

     
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    I hope your aunt is okay.

     
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    ladybuglove    October 23, 2010  

    sorry to hear about that. my thoughts and prayers go out to your family. hope everythign turns out for the best. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo to the nth power!!

     
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    mlkeysock    September 1, 2007   near Philadelphia, PA

    Oh no! That's terrible! We'll keep your Aunt in our prayers, and I hope she's ok. Lots of hugs your way and good luck on Saturday!!!

     
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    northernazbride    August 1, 2009   Arizona

    Thanks so much ladies, I really appreciate your kind words. Unfortunately the wedding is in AZ and they are in OH, so even if she did make a miraculous recovery in the next 48 hours, it's quite a bit of traveling for someone who has been so weak and so sick for so long... I do love me some (good) surprises though! This whole wedding planning process goes through cycles- everything falls apart and then comes back together again. Right now it feels as though it has fallen apart and hopefully on saturday it will all come back together.

     
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    budgetbeautiful    9/26/09   Fredericksburg, VA

    I'm so sorry! I hope your aunt is feeling better soon.

     

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