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    TheRen    May 2011  

    Well some things have happened in the past couple of days and there MIGHT be an opportunity for me to find a job up in PA. We were talking about this earlier and what he thought about this, but I told him I wouldnt move up there unless there was more of a commitment (meaning engagement). Well he told me earlier he wanted to have a serious conversation tonight about this and to "tie up loose ends".. I will let you all know how this goes.

     
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    eek! good luck!!

     
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    PirateJenn    June 21, 2011   Denver

    hopefully it all goes well!

     
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    lkbphmd    August 7, 2010   MN (ceremony in Omaha, NE)

    ooohhh...hope it's a good conversation!!

     
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    Blueshoes2    June 2010   PA

    Good luck!!  Do you know where in PA you're thinking of?  I'm from the Pittsburgh area :)

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    Oh! I hope it's the good kind of serious talk! Good luck! ; )

     
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    ceamoste    September 3, 2011  

    oh definately let us know how it goes! i'm excited for you :)

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    Good luck!!

     
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    PDX Bride in Seattle    August 14, 2010   Living in Seattle / Wedding in Portland

    Ahhhh!!!! How exciting! Hope it is a good serious talk :-) GOOD LUCK!

     
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    MidnightSun    November 16, 2012  

    Crossing my fingers that it's good news! Laughing Good luck!

     
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    mngf    August 4, 2012   Minneapolis, MN

    Good luck, lady!  Hope your talk makes you both feel better about things.

     
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    judya64    October 2, 2010   connecticut

    good luck

     
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    Helstrong    April 9, 2011   Overland Park, KS

    Hope it goes well!

     
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    fuschiasparkles    November 4, 2011   FL

    sounds interesting! 

     
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    Jessica22580    April 3, 2010   Charlotte, NC but Wedding is in NYC

    Good Luck!

     
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    TheRen    May 2011  

    Ok so here is a small update.. we didnt get to have a full out convo about things because I had to finish a final before I went out of town this weekend to visit my sister in Memphis and my poor SO fell asleep waiting on me.. but this is what we started to talk about. He told me that he would LOVE for me to move to PA... of course I asked if there was a but and he said there is no but. I told him I didnt want him to feel like I was pressuring him or rushing him into things and he said he doesnt feel like that at all. He just felt like he put him self in such a bad financial place in college and he really wants to get himself out. He also said he wants me up there so so bad and he is having a really hard time with the distance as much as I have been lately. He said this is something he wants to talk about tomorrow when we have more time to actually talk. I asked if this was a "good talk" or a "bad talk" and he said "very very good". Eeek! I will keep you gals posted..

    @Blueshoes2 it would be the Pittsburgh area. My SO lives in Lower Burrell/ New Kensington

     
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    ccranetobe    August 14, 2010  

    good talk aye.. EXCITEMENT!

     
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    TheRen    May 2011  

    I hope so lol!

     
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    lilyfaith    June 23, 2012   Lakeview, Chicago

    Sounds like a good sign! Good luck!

     
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    sunshine8    March 17, 2015  

    I'd say your ring is a commin!! Start plannin your wedding honeybee!

     
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    I hope things really do work out the way you want them to! It sounds happy! :)

     
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    teaadntoast    04/23/2010   New York, NY

    Sounds like something nice is on the horizon!

     
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    Politichick    December 31, 2016   Washington DC/SF Bay Area

    Oooh! Yay! Good luck with your follow up talk!

     

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