The stress is starting to get to me

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2211 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Hey date twin!

Sorry to hear you’re having nightmares.  That’s horrible.  🙁  I know it’s fruitless to tell a worrier to chill out (fellow worrier here!), but maybe let your FI know how you’re feeling?  Whenever I start getting stressed or crazy about some aspect of the wedding, my guy always talks me down.

Just try to take it one or two things at a time.  Make a list in order of priority, and attempt to limit your worry to a max of 2 things on it at once.

Good luck, and remember that us Bees will always be here to listen!

P.S. You’ll be beautiful that day, no matter what.  🙂

Post # 4
2444 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@JLR1982:  relax, take a step back from planning and just enjoy this time with your FH. 🙂 Everything is going to turn out lovely, and you are going to make a beautiful bride. 🙂

Post # 5
6209 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

The only thing you can start doing is working out if you’re worried about it (and haven’t already)! And remember that it’s only one day.

Post # 6
12262 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I was worried when my wedding was over a year away… But when we moved up the date to 5 months away and we had to book EVERYTHING in two weeks, I felt great!

Maybe you’ll get calmer as time passes?

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