(Closed) The things I get myself into (2 Maids of Honor?) HELP!

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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539 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MsTbb531:  I think talking to them both individually is best. I don’t think it needs to be a big deal. Since you haven’t officially asked them anyways just say to them ” I wouldo love for you to be ONE of my maids of honor.” I think you can do this nicely, but be sure it is clear. the sooner you clear this up the better.

Post # 4
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89 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Why cant they both share the role. I have two cousins (more like sisters) who were going to be my MOHs. The only thing that changes this is that one got married so now I have a Maid and Matron of honor.

Post # 5
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356 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I have a maid of honor and a matron of honor.  When I asked them to be that, I immediately told them who was also in the bridal party, so they knew the other was also in an “honor” position.  Lucky for me that they are also really good friends, so they have already started talking about my bachelorette party. 🙂

I say you should call them up, and say, oh yeah, I want to tell you about the others!  Then just mention, so and so is also a maid of honor! You’ll both just split the duties on the day of, its going to be so much fun! That’ll work. 🙂

If you want to make it super official, one idea I did was I sent them a cute card that asked them to be a bridesmaid along with a minature bottle of champagne and chocolates in the mail!

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