Post # 1
Hi everyone! I’m new and lemme just tell you, gosh GOLLY, how excited I am to join the gang
However, as you see, I am not apart of the cool kids club (aka the engaged), but rather I am joining the limbo club. COULD be cool, but it has, in my instance, been anxiety-inducing. Everytime my guy gets down to do something as simple as pick up the remote, I have a mini-heart attack. Is this IT!? Could it BE?! …no. No, galacticpony, this is not it. You will have to wait and be a patient girl. I suck at patience.
My guy and I have been together for 5 years and we have talked the talk. We just need to get around to walkin the walk, already! We were college sweethearts, and then we broke up when I graduated. I was devastated. He was devastated. There was nothing we could do. We were going in completely opposite directions. Come two years later, after not talking to each other the entire time, he calls me out of the blue to tell me that he misses me and that he is still in love with me. I was still hurt, so it took a long time for us to start our relationship anew. It was certainly a trying time, but we both survived it, and through that struggle, we evolved our relationship. We have never been happier, and all of our issues that we laborously attended to (my phobia of commitment, his phobia of not being good enough) are at rest peacefully. Relationships are not always sunshine and rainbows, and I am just so so happy that we stuck it out through the thunderstorms. I believe a Bee wrote about the downs of her relationship once (I forget which one) and that one post spoke to me and I knew I needed to become a member of this community.
Happy to meet you, girls!
Post # 3
Welcome to the hive! I know how hard the waiting can be, at least you have us to complain to!
Post # 4
Wooohoo! I am new too, and like you, am waiting for the big proposal (really it doesn’t even need to be big!)
Welcome, I am happy I found weddingbee, or well finally joined, so now I can finally vent to people who are going through the same thing as me!
Post # 5
Welcome! I wish I had known about this site before we got engaged. It is so supportive and understanding, I might not have flipped out as bad as I did on my FI 😉
Post # 6
Hey now! We are actually pretty cool!
Post # 7
Welcome, the more the merrier! This week has been crazy for us waiting girls! We are dropping like flies lol hopefully you will turn is coming soon!
Post # 8
Welcome to the hive! So glad you’re here and that you’ve jumped in!
Post # 9
hey! we’re cool too. lol. welcome to the hive! i think this place has actually kept me from going ape-poop on the guy. i’m sure he appreciates that. lol
Post # 10
Welcome! Very cute story 🙂
Post # 11
Welcome! The waiting ladies here are totally awesome!
Post # 12
Welcome! I agree with tea! We are cool too. Everyone is watching to see who is next, it’s like a mini soap opera!LOL
Post # 13
welcome! i’m new here as well and am loving it! im also in the waiting boat with you.
Post # 15
Welcome, and I have to say I just love your username 🙂
Post # 16
Thanks for the warm welcome, guyz!
@ Mrs. DG : As a girl of the 80s, I have an unnatural obsession with ponies, magic and galaxies far, far, away. Let’s just say that I told my parents to buy me On-X for my birthday once. And MEANT it.