- 5 years ago
I’m new here so hello! I need some advice, please!! For the past two weeks my emotions have been up and down, up and down. I’ve been in a relationship with a really sweet guy for a few months and everything was going great; however, this past week, he cancelled plans on me last minute. He apologized and we made plans to spend all day Sunday (today) together. I feel very disappointed because Sunday is the only day of the week we have to spend the day together and actually get to do outdoor things since he works Monday through Saturday until dark.
We have planned to spend today together for the past four days and I have been super excited and thought he was too. Late last night he mentioned he and his friends decided to go cycling Sunday morning and then they were going to see a movie later on and I could join them if I wanted. I reminded him of the plans we made together four days ago and he didn’t understand why I was disappointed/upset. That’s twice this week he’s done this. We’ve had these plans for four days. He can’t use the excuse he forgot because we’ve talked about it everyday, even yesterday, so I’m not sure how he “forgot”. I tried talking to him about it but somehow I ended up feeling like the bad guy for getting upset. Still not quite sure how that got turned around on me…hmm.
So, I’ve been up and down, up and down, with my emotions this week and need to know if I am overreacting by getting disappointed/upset? I’m not sure what to do or how to handle this. I would appreciate some advice from any of you who has been through this and how you dealt with it. Thank you!