(Closed) The women at my job HATE me. :(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
18645 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Ugh I’m so sorry!  I don’t know why people are so crazy and mean sometimes!

Post # 4
3162 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Ew that’s so obnoxious. I’m sure they are jealous of your awesomeness. But seriously, they sound like the kind of stupid petty women you wouldn’t want to be friends with anyway. It probably feels crappy to be excluded but ultimately you probably don’t want to spend time with them anyway. Some people are just haters.

Post # 5
768 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Ew. Sound like a bunch of hens that you work with. ๐Ÿ™ Sorry they suck. 

Post # 6
4024 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Oh my gosh! There are a few ladies at my work that HATE me too! I feel your pain!

Post # 7
1854 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

It sucks for you, but even more for them because they are missing getting to know you for no apparent reason – their loss! I say, hang out with the men, they are way more simple! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 8
4765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

See, that’s precisely why I’ve never really gotten along with women very well. I’ve always had guys as friends instead. They tend to be a lot nicer, haha. I’m sorry you have to deal with that – that’s seriously ridiculous!

Post # 9
925 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

that really sucks.. I don’t know why women have to be so catty and mean to each other.  I hope things get better Frown  Too bad it’s work and you have to be all professional and junk.. I’d have to tell them a thing or two!

Post # 10
14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

They sound like a bunch of stupid bias to me. I have some other nasties up my sleeve that I”ll raincloud their way for you =(


Post # 11
2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010


I was in this same boat when I started my first job.  There was one girl my age. I was 24 at the time.  The rest were 40 and up.  They would pick up the phone and call each other and whisper about lunch plans.  Then get up and go eat without inviting me.  I hadn’t done anything because I had just started working there.

Then I realized something.  I was the only one there who was pretty, thin and college educated.  I learned that there was a rumor going around that I slept with the CEO to get my job.  I didn’t even interview with the man when I was hired.  He wasn’t even in the office for 2 weeks when I started there.  So I quickly cleared that up. 

I learned that you have to go for the Bell Cow.  That is what who I call the leader of the pack.  They are usually the ones who like to stir the pot.  I’m sure you know who this is.  What I did was started going to the Bell Cow and asking her if she needed anything from the vending machine that I was on my way and thought I’d ask.  Or if I knew she had a lot of work to get done fast I would offer my help.  Next thing before I knew it I was in the circle.

Funny thing is, the Bell Cow was fired a year later for drinking on the job.  The other two women were brought under investigation for stealing $$ from the company.  So no wonder why they didn’t want me in their circle.  I was the HR investigator!

Post # 12
4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Honestly, Layla, I feel you. One of the managers at my work haaaaates me (we had to have a meeting about it yesterday!) and honestly, I really think they’re either jealous or insecure. You’re gorgeous AND awesome AND smart AND well spoken, and that’s a lethal combo in high school girl world,which is where these girls apparently live.

Post # 13
664 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I’m sorry girl ๐Ÿ™

I know how you feel. At my job, I had just graduated nursing school about 5 months ago and found a job right after graduating, and I feel the same way as you do. Most of the people there are rude to me and don’t include me in anything. I think it’s because I’m only 20 and no one takes me seriously because a lot of them are older. I’ve only made friends with maybe 1 or 2 people there even though I am always friendly to everyone and try to make conversation with everyone. I’m hoping with time it’ll get better though. But in the mean time, it sucks!

I hate that people at work are so rude to you, you seem so sweet! I hope it gets better!

Post # 15
283 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

(Hugs) that really sounds awful!

Post # 16
11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@vintage- LMAO @ bell cow

@layla- that really sucks. I’m sure its not about you though… all you can do is keep being nice. 

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