Post # 1
This so far has been a crazy year with everyone in our families getting devorsed or splitting up their relationships. We have two sets of friends and both of them have 4 kids and 5 kids each and they have officially split up. My dad and step mom devorsed. My mom which i would never see in my life got married. My DH brother and wife devorsed my cousin that just had a baby split up with her guy. Its just everyone and ppl u dont even expect. I am really happy in my relationship and i am so glad for that. But i reach out to the ppl that have been splitting up. Why so many ppl in my life splitting up.
Post # 3
I have noticed this too. I try to look at How long did the couple date before getting married? How long was the couple married before having children? Did the couple rush into an engagement? Did the couple have an unexpected pregnancy and were wed because of the unexpected pregnancy? Does the couple have financial or legal trouble?
I once read in a book on Divorce that:
There is a 75% chance of divorce if: A couple is married with-in two year of meeting and has 1 or more children with-in 5 years of marriage. That is a high probability/rate of divorce.
We just found out that my FH – BIL has an extensive criminal record. We found out online and are still in shock. He has assaults on his record, as recently as last Sept. and has 3 sons… one with one lady and two with his sister. They got married with-in two years, bought a newer home, she had 2 babies, now a stay at home mom, I am sure this is so stressful for everyone involved, but I am staying completely far away from any of that negativity.
Post # 4
@newbabybee: +1000 Totally agree with you
Post # 5
It’s… probably a coincidence?
Post # 6
@newbabybee: Holy smokes. Such a crazy world we live in. you live for finding love and building a family and this crazy bizzare stuff happens. Wow. Ya so much stuff has been happening around us its shocking. My husband and i have been together for 7 years and we have one baby. I waited a long time to find the right person, and i believe strongly that we are made for eachother. I just hope that we can continue to be right with ourselfs concidering all our friends family and common ppl we know are going through these break ups. Unreal hey.
Post # 7
I just got word from two set of those coupals. One set found eachoother and want to repair their marriage and the other coupal has split up and the mother has found a new guy total oppisit of her other guy. Im in total shock feels like y&r
Post # 8
…I never heard that any animal in the chinese zodiac is associated with negative outcomes for everyone.
Usually the person is said to have more challenges in the year of their own animal, and they do best in the years of their animal “friends” (every animal has at least 2 other animal friends).
Just because a snake sounds like a bad thing in our culture doesn’t make it so! Some European wedding bands were snake shaped because the snake represented eternity to those cultures.
There is also a chinese zodiac year of the rat, you know 🙂