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Themed Rehearsal Dinner: Ideas!

posted 1 year ago in Parties
  • poll: What do you think the theme of my rehearsal dinner should be??
    Hawaiian Luau (we are having a pig and bonfire...it fits) : (7 votes)
    21 %
    Mexican Fiesta (our honeymoon is in mexico...pinata for kids and margaritas for me!) : (3 votes)
    9 %
    Cowboy BBQ (its at a ranch in MT...this sounds kind of dum but it was FIs idea) : (18 votes)
    55 %
    Themes ARE tacky : (5 votes)
    15 %
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    RxBrideToBe    August 21, 2010  

    Hey Ladies!

    Wanted to do a themed rehearsal dinner for something "different"....FI thinks it's "tacky" to decorate like we're in mexico or hawaii when in reality we will be at a ranch in MT (I swear all my FIs input is shutting me down). I just want everyone to have a good time and I think a theme is a good way to facilitate that!

    Other Info: It will be outdoors on a ranch and I want a bonfire!!

    If you have BETTER ideas, please post!!

     
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    LadyGoodman    September 25, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    I kind of agree with your fiance . . . Just personal preference.  Plus, you can totally have a bonfire at a BBQ and do smores!  Plus, the big would still work with that, especially considering that pig is a main ingredient in BBQ.

     
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    Magenta    July 31, 2010   Springfield MA- Wedding in PR

    hawaiian luau just because it remind me of my favorite movie "runaway bride" where the rehearsal dinner was a luau

     
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    RxBrideToBe    August 21, 2010  

    I guess BBQ and Bonfire could be a theme on its own...

    Totally agree on the luau...I didn't think of that movie til you just mentioned it!

     
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    MightySapphire      

    I'm a little biased because I'm Hawaiian, but I voted for the cowboy BBQ.  I think it's much more appropriate, and your FI is right, a luau or fiesta would be a bit out of place.  Kinda more like a shower idea or a kid's party than a wedding rehearsal dinner.

     
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    toothfairyb    September 4, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    The BBQ sounds like it would fit in nicely without being too 'themey' Plus, everyone loves BBQ! :)

     
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    zippylef    October 30, 2010   Norfolk, UK

    I think themes are fun. We're doing our on Halloween weekend, so we've been considering having a costumed rehearsal.

     
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    MsTerrapin    June 19, 2010   Maryland

    I love a good themed party, so I vote for a theme!  My FI and I both LOVE Mexican and South American cuisine, so I had originally proposed having our reception at our favorite local Mexican restaurant, which has the best margaritas in the world.  He said no.  So, we are having a rehearsal fiesta instead!

     

     
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    caszos    June 2010   Florida

    I agree with your FI, go with a simple BBQ.  I think if you try to do a tropical theme it may seem a bit odd.  Additionally you may end up spending a lot more time effort and money on decorating since you will be going against the decor that is already around the ranch. 

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    While I think BBQ fits the theme better, I still vote for mexican because that's my food preference =]. Plus, you're going there for your honeymoon so I think that's fun.

    Also...please have smores! =]

     
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    rosepinkslipper    August 21, 2010   San Francisco, getting married in Seattle

    BBQ sounds fantastic! And themes are not dumb/tacky at all. We are having ours at a seafood restaurant and the invitations and nametags are all nautical. We are also encouraging guests to wear "nautical cocktail attire".

     
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    texasmeredith    July 2010  

    I don't think themes for a rehersal dinner are tacky at all.  The way I look at it is, we're having a very nice traditional wedding reception.  Why not have fun with the rehersal dinner?  

     
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    marywil1    September 18, 2013   NYC - Wedding in PR

    BBQ fits best!

     

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