There are some horrible people out there :(

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
3419 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

@Laurengrapes:  That’s awful.  I don’t understand why people have to be like that.  If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.

Post # 4
Member
1189 posts
Bumble bee

@Laurengrapes:  people think they can hide behind the ‘veil’ of the internet and say things that they wouldn’t have the balls to do so in real life. Internet bullying is just ridiculous, I’m glad you screen the comments!

Post # 5
Member
2535 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I feel like it would be great to take that comment and re-write it “for moderation” to say “Beautiful wedding! Love the (something they complained about)” and then submit it hahaha

Not like they’d ever check the comment to see that their hateful words posted anyway.

Post # 6
Member
282 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@CakeyP: Lol love this idea!! If only it worked that way for everything on the internet.

I don’t understand the purpose of hate posts. Go live/critique your own life. Clearly it needs some work if other peoples’ happiness makes you that angry!

Post # 7
Member
274 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

@Laurengrapes:  

Yes a lot of people are horrible but most are not 🙂

I used to always get very upset about the terrible things people say, now I just pity them. Imagine how small their lives are, how sad it is when a person needs to put down others to feel good about themselves…

 

Post # 9
Member
5481 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Laurengrapes:  I’m glad you moderate and approve comments.  There was a thread recently about a same-sex union and some nasty remarks were made that the couple actually saw.  

Didn’t everyone’s mama teach them if they didn’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say anything at all?

Post # 10
Member
2466 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Seriously, people can be so awful/horrible. I feel like, if it doesn’t affect you, why say anything mean at all?? To each their own! As long as the people whose wedding it is are happy with everything, that’s all that matters!

Post # 12
Member
12262 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

That’s so sad! People can be so awful! I agree with @CakeyP:  about moderating the comment to say how lovely they think everything is, and posting that!

Post # 13
Member
959 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@Laurengrapes:  What makes people happy about saying that someone looks trashy? or their dress is ugly? or their mom is fat? How on earth does that make you a happy person?

Glad you moderate, I would probably burst into tears if I saw something so hateful posted about me and my wedding.

 

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